Lilnonames · F
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Casheyane · 31-35, F
@vannagail Personally, I don't really have a social life. But experiences taught me I'd rather be able to enjoy myself alone than be with a crowd who makes me feel lonely.
I don't meet with people often. But when I do meet some who call themselves my friends, I can say I feel valued and heard even for a bit. I try out the things they like. But if I don't want to do it again, we find a compromise and they do the things I like. We end up finding things we all enjoy.
Being alone can seem scary if you're not used to solitude. But making compromise and sacrificing your own satisfaction for the sake of company...depending on where you look, it can be more pitiful.
In the end, time will reveal what will mean more to you. And you'll have to learn how to make hard choices. It's your only life after all.
I don't meet with people often. But when I do meet some who call themselves my friends, I can say I feel valued and heard even for a bit. I try out the things they like. But if I don't want to do it again, we find a compromise and they do the things I like. We end up finding things we all enjoy.
Being alone can seem scary if you're not used to solitude. But making compromise and sacrificing your own satisfaction for the sake of company...depending on where you look, it can be more pitiful.
In the end, time will reveal what will mean more to you. And you'll have to learn how to make hard choices. It's your only life after all.
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vannagail · 22-25, F
@BiasForAction honestly this is one small part of a much larger issue where i dont get to do anything i want to do unless i do it alone. I’m genuinely asking… is that something that just comes with it sometimes?
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Vengabus · 36-40
please don’t settle. Find someone who cares about you and how you feel. Find someone who likes what you like, and has ambitions and goals.
And if you can, get out there and chase some of your own dreams and try and reach some of your own goals.
If you can support yourself, you will have more autonomy
And if you can, get out there and chase some of your own dreams and try and reach some of your own goals.
If you can support yourself, you will have more autonomy
twiigss · M
Board games are my favorite!!! I wish I had some one to play them with because I have soooo many. I got, Titanic, Hero Quest (the original version) with the expansion packs, Mystery Mansion, 13 Dead End Street, Mall Madness, I got Storage Wars, Wheel of Fortune and an original Family Feud board game, I also have Fallout (like from the video game) I got so many to play and no one to play them with :(
dale74 · M
I agree i love similar love board games but noone wants to play. I dont have any routines involving drinking or just hanging out...
Magicianzini · M
Coke? That's insanity. Boardgames? That's fun. Find someone less insane and more fun to be with.
It sounds like you're already alone. Once you face that, you'll be better off. You'll be able to find someone instead of keep draggin this rock around with you.
It sounds like you're already alone. Once you face that, you'll be better off. You'll be able to find someone instead of keep draggin this rock around with you.
SapphirailGuaritore · 31-35, F
If you want board games go for board games, but remember in order to play the game you need enough players, and if the people around you don’t get the rules maybe you need to find a replacement or substitution
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
You need a new boyfriend