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kentex35 · 100+, M
I have thought about this. If it's up to me I'd want my casket closed at the service and when the service is almost done I would want the organ player to start playing pop goes the weasel until everyone is staring at my casket in horrific anticipation .

dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Well my kids know my preference is the same as their mother's was: no funeral, celebration of life is OK as there is food, drink, laughter, and music. Both of us believe(d) that these events are for those left behind, the living, and not the dead. We did just that for my wife, and I put together a mix of her favorite songs, the penultimate one being "our song" (Ray Charles' I Can't Stop Loving You) and concluding with the whole congregation singing Sweet Caroline, as she always maintained Neil Diamond did that for her and not that Kennedy girl.

That said, I was just thinking about that the other day and I hearkened back to one of my last trips to the little mining/cattle town I initially grew up in. We were attending some extended family event in the Community Hall, and I had no sooner sat down than Eddie Arnold's Lonesome Cattle Call was played. It was my later father's favorite song and as if he was welcoming me back from the cemetery out the back and around the corner. And later as we were driving down the hill to a town big enough to have lodging in the brand new Corvette I had just won, Andy Williams' Moon River -- "you're crossing it in style some day" -- came on and it reminded me of how far I had come from no indoor plumbing, no electricity. Tack on Charles' I Can't Stop Loving You for my late wife and Louis Armstrong's It's A Wonderful World and that would do it. But not for me to say. I won't be around for it.
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I couldn’t give less of a fuck, I’m not planning on attending
@SW-User I dont even want a song or service.
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@Sojournersoul I’m not bothered at all, whatever my family want to do, they’re the ones who will be attending so whatever makes them feel better
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
don't fear the reaper -blue oyster cult.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@darkmere1983 😆 rather apt in this case i suppose
gregloa · 61-69, M
Another one bites the dust
smiler2012 · 56-60
@gregloa 😆another apt choice
The Force Theme from Star Wars
akindheart · 61-69, F
good for you. i am planning my funeral shortly. haven't thought of music but i do have some of my burial expenses paid for.
nacnud · 31-35, M
If I go after my spouse I'm not sure about actually having a funeral service. I don't like the attention and find it hard to accept praise but I realise for many it gives closure.
Musicman · 61-69, M
Why would I remotely care what song if any is played at my funeral?????
Lilnonames · F
@Musicman because your the MUSIC MAN
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I've got friends in low places!
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Mein Teil, of course.
dominateofyou · 61-69, M
Im donating my body to Duke Universety of medicine , but for music i thing Jazz ( when the saints go marching in )
exexec · 61-69, C
My favorite hymn is "Be Still My Soul" by Kathrina von Schlegel, and my family will know to have it sung by all.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@emily67 🤔sorry but you are a young slip of a girl and the last think you be think about 😆
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TheFragile · 46-50, M
The Same Deep Water as You by The Cure.
Morrowind · 26-30, M
No funeral or something funny
Kazuya69 · 31-35, M
so cold breaking ben
[media=https://youtu.be/46o1joHp7t0]

OR

The Buzzard Boogie.

eli1601 · 70-79, M
Just the first part

[media=https://youtu.be/REfKNbNndzo]
Enter Sandman
younglovegay123 · 13-15
Hells bells
RenFur · 70-79, M
The Wanderer
Neptun · 18-21, F
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
[media=https://youtu.be/MuKUjh4ezc0]
My dad's uncle had Colonal Bogey, which made us all giggle.
[media=https://vocaroo.com/1k1I8ezyx90k]
Lilnonames · F
[media=https://youtu.be/I0MT8SwNa_U]
RenFur · 70-79, M
@Lilnonames I had no idea

 
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