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Mandatory vasectomy for men isn't an ideal solution

I've seen a lot of talk online about mandatory vasectomies in males from birth or even getting them now and then they can get them reversed when they need to reproduce and get them back again after. I think this is a good idea for women who can't get abortions but it doesn't protect women with multiple sexual partners unless they can be sure all partners have vasectomies. Also it doesn't protect women having affairs if they know that their partner doesn't have a vasectomy which can make potential for them receiving domestic violence. I think making abortion legal again is our only option

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SW-User

Alternatively men could just wear condoms and women take the pill or use other forms of contraception.

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Chickie · F

@SW-User

argument is just so fucking redundant.

like yours isn't? The birth control ban is true I doubt even looked at the links he provided

SW-User

@Chickie I did, but that particular argument is still redundant. Firstly they could be lying or the person who told them that could've lied, and it doesn't negate my point about the contraceptive injection being effective over 99% of the time.

I've been blocked now anyway 😂

Torsten · 36-40, M

whoever believes in mandatory vasectomies should never utter the words "my body my choice", but of course its the same people who say dumb crap like this.. Ohh and the same people who were all for mandatory Covid Vaccinations. Funny how they only care about freedom of body rights when it impacts them and no other times

ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

@Torsten Maybe we as men should propose to these imbeciles mandatory tube ties. Fair is fair.

dancingtongue · 80-89, M

Well, first of all, vasectomies are neither 100% effective (as are none of the other contraception methods) nor easily, or always, reversible, so it is not like you can turn a spigot on and off. More importantly, it assumes that abortion is primarily a means of contraception which feeds into the "pro-life" mindset. Abortion should be a last resort for lamentable circumstances with other forms of contraception being taught and made widely available to preclude the need for abortion except in the unusual circumstances where the mother's life is endangered, rape, incest, malformed fetuses, and failed contraceptive measures.

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@dancingtongue i think you make good points. I see a lot on Instagram that it's the only solution but it's really not

PhoenixPhail · M

Reversal of a vasectomy is hardly guaranteed.

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PhoenixPhail · M

@SW-User It would seem the procedures have gotten better.

Penny · 46-50, F

@PhoenixPhail its also a highly invasive procedure

PhoenixPhail · M

@Penny Really? It would seem a simple one.

BizSuitStacy · M

JustJordan · 22-25, F

I want to agree with this but it's far too out there even for me lol

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@JustJordan it's the truth

djjohnson · 41-45, M

only option for what exactly? Birth control?
(Although thinking about the term "Birth Control" I just realized that is a misnomer. It's "pregnancy control". Abortion would actually be a more applicable use of the term "birth control". lol. sorry ADHD moment there. )

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@djjohnson yes birth/pregnancy control

djjohnson · 41-45, M

@Soph03 As has been pointed out in other posts vasectomies aren't guaranteed. And making it mandatory is like making any other form of birth control mandatory, that includes abstinence. You don't punish everyone because of the mistakes of the few. And who would even regulate this? How many dystopian/suspense movies have been made with the idea of a government deciding who and when people can have kids. But that kind of government is what is required in order to enforce this kind of policy with any real effect.

ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

And the supreme court would strike it down anyways because it violates multiple amendments :). Leftists need to just STOP. Ban ban ban, mandate mandate. Government intrusion into peoples lives. It's all they know. Enough.

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ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

@Soph03 Typical European.

JPWhoo · 36-40, M

@ShadowWolf Yeah, those damn leftists banning abortion and mandating that pregnancies be carried to term. Those damn leftists.

ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

@JPWhoo Abortion was not banned. Typical propaganda. The power to allow or block abortions was returned to the states. It is not a ban. New York, California etc still and will continue to allow them for example. Texas will likely ban, and that's their prerogative. Do I agree with bans? No, I'm a libertarian. I hate bans from both sides of the aisle. But the left trys to censor and ban a hell of a lot more.

DCarey · 46-50, M

Just shut up.

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@DCarey typical man

DCarey · 46-50, M

@Soph03 Don't take your mental illness out on us.

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@DCarey now you shut up

Dshhh · M

in india, they have a way of male birth control, that ALSO protects agains STDs and is revisable repeatedly. AND allows bareback delight
Abortion should be legal without any explanation

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@Dshhh What is it?

Dshhh · M

@MrBrownstone an implant in your vas defrins is think, A tiny tube that has a mild Ionic gradient the destroys the sperms fertility AND kills most STD germs
Not available in the states 🙃

caPnAhab · 26-30, M

And as far as I know, a vasectomy doesn't protects against STDs.

So still... use caution people. Personally, I don't think sex should be so frivolous

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Soph03 · 18-21, F

@caPnAhab @Chickie it should be safe and enjoyable

JonLosAngeles66 · M

Ouch!

dale74 · M

How about we use birth control when in committed relationship and quit sleeping with people on a whim little planning no problem there is still a pill available for up to 12 weeks.

Sidewinder · 36-40, M

Why a vasectomy? Why not castration? Carve the "meat" and scallop the "potatoes!" Prune the "twig" and pick the "berries!"

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@Sidewinder that's vial

oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M

it should never been in the hands of a man to decide this ,, it is your body you should be the one that says yes or no ,,,

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

You’re free to chose to only fuck guys with vasectomies or who shoot blanks. But hey it’s my body my choice.

Stillwaiting · M

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Stillwaiting · M

@Soph03 Yeah .. In response to typical whacko b.s. .. ;-)

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@Stillwaiting keep talking

Stillwaiting · M

@Soph03 As long as stuff like this is posted .. you can bet I will.

Chickie · F

This isn't about women having affairs though it's about women rights. A man can get a vasectomy if he wants and yeah I know it's not permanent but if a woman in her fertility years wants her tubes tied the doctors will tell them no because they have a gross fetish of wanting women to give birth and I've heard that birth control is banned too. They need to stop taking away our rights and do stuff like put child abusers in jail.

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SW-User

Well if each partner takes responsibility for birth control it would be a better world

I would like to see more medical research into contraceptive options

If abortion is going to be legal
Let's do everything possible to make it rare

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Soph03 · 18-21, F

@RogueLoner it's on Instagram

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Soph03 · 18-21, F

@RogueLoner so?

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Soph03 · 18-21, F

@MarmeeMarch ok go for it

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