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SlapHappy · 36-40, M
We all could do better .... all we can do is try to best the version of ourselves but realize we will never be perfect.

We humans are our own harshest critics. If you look around you'll see people here speak highly of you. They're not paid to say these things. They do it because they mean it. I know it's not easy to believe those nice things but the person you are is the person they like. A lot.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@onrealityofdreams
Thank you. It’s really hard for me to believe those things about myself sometimes. I want to see what others see, but my own mind gets in the way. Your words mean more than I can say right now.
@mindstruggle You're welcome. You don't have to say anything. Just be. Keep being. That's who people like.
Markinator · 51-55, M
Don't ever apologize for being you, ms!!! You're awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤗
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Markinator
And you're the greatest.
You're also not who your insecurities try to tell you that you are. Control the narrative in your head, allow yourself to be proud of who you are.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@UBotMate
It’s hard because most days, I believe those voices more than anything else. They feel louder than the truth.
MellyMel22 · F
Love you as you are!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@MellyMel22
Love you too… even if I’m a little clingy sometimes. Thanks for loving me as I am. 💛
MellyMel22 · F
@mindstruggle You’re never clingy!
Captain · 61-69, M
The best is all anyone needs to give. Love on ya. M
Iwillwait · M
You are Awesome!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Iwillwait
Not a bit.
Iwillwait · M
@mindstruggle Yes, Yes you are!
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M


I not what I want to be, I don't know if I could do any better.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@ToLivePeacefully
I hear you. I’ve been feeling the same. Maybe we’re both doing better than we think, just by holding on. 🫂
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
@mindstruggle I honestly have no idea about how long I would hold on.

I have a little hope, that's all.

I will wish you all the best in getting over whatever you're going through.
YoMomma ·
Why? You're one of the nicest people here 🙁
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@YoMomma
Maybe if I could do something nice for you, it’d lift my spirits a bit. You’ve been so kind to me.
YoMomma ·
@mindstruggle you're already nice. No worries .. and i’m sorry i was mean to you that one day, i wish i could take it back 😭 i have to go to sleep but i hope you find a happier more confident frame of mind of how nice and wonderful you are ☺ hugs
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@YoMomma
We all have our moments. I really appreciate your kindness. Wishing you a peaceful sleep and lots of happiness too. Hugs!
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Same. I focus on my projects
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@FreestyleArt
I feel that. Wishing you the best with everything you’re working on.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
@mindstruggle and I hope your day is great c:
HumanEarth · F
None of us are. We all change over time

Its part of being a living creation of life.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Hey now... you are wonderful young woman. 🤗
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Degbeme
I’m trying to believe that. Thanks for the encouragement.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Well lucky for you - I’ve kind of just met you. 😄
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Ambroseguy80
Then you’re seeing me in a rough state… but maybe that’s okay. I appreciate you being around.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@mindstruggle It’s very okay. Just be who you are.
slorollin · 41-45, M
Don't apologize for being who you are
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@slorollin
I’m trying to figure out who that is right now. But thank you for always being kind to me.
slorollin · 41-45, M
@mindstruggle You're always kind to me 🫂 so thank you
I haven't been the same owl since April, either... and I'm just frozen in place - using one identity to handle socialising and the other to stop the damn crying.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@HootyTheNightOwl
That’s so real. It hurts knowing others feel this too, but it also makes me feel less alone. Thank you for sharing that with me.
@mindstruggle It's a shame that any of us have to go through this.

It all still feels alien to me and I keep having to remind myself that it's only been 100 days... I'm allowed to still feel raw about it if that's how I feel. I just don't get to cry too much because that will make me sick, too.

Sometimes, we go through things that change us forever, we can't go back to who we were but we can heal and move forward. Unfortunately, that's a long and hard process that requires self patience and a degree of acceptance that it's okay to be here for now, you are working on it and one day you'll be strong again... just not today.

You're certainly not alone in going through this, though some of us try to bury it deep down inside or dissociate to appear like they are handling it better than they feel they are - like I said, I've been using at least two of my identities to appear happy and not crying to the point where my eyes and face get sore.
Life beats us down.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Your even better than who you used to be froggy. You got nothing to apologize for!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Captainjackass
Maybe one day I’ll believe that too.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Ferric67 · M
We fully accept you
Worts and all
💯
BuzzedLightyear · 61-69, M
Who are you apologizing to?
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@BuzzedLightyear
My friends.
Straylight · 31-35, F
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mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@AlienTheExtraterrestrial
Hello my favourite person.
@mindstruggle Heya. I'm not my best these days either
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@AlienTheExtraterrestrial
We’re both not at our best but we’re still here, yes? That counts for something.
These days don’t last forever and you’re stronger than you think. 💪🫂❤
🤗🤗🫂🫂🤗🤗💋
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@AllycatAD
🤗🤗🤗❤❤

 
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