Do u think that watching p*rn in a 'relationship" is cheating? 👙
Or a marriage. Somebody asked me this yesterday. I told them straight up usually it is not. But it also depends if the spouse knows or not. What do you think. Is that really cheating. Seriously. 🤔☺
No, I don’t think it’s cheating although I know for some couples it can create problems if it be aimed a substitute for intimacy and connection with each other.
I'm not really sure how I stand on this issue. Fortunately, I've never had this come up in my life. I think if it's a problem for your partner then it needs to be addressed and figured out how to get past it with with results that appease both hopefully.
I dont feel that it is. But the thing is if you know that your spouse has a problem with it, why not just enjoy it in private out of respect for that person when your alone. You don't have to rub it in their faces and they dont even have to know about it, you're an adult, you can do whatever your heart desires just be respectful. Thats how i see it. Have that conversation if you feel you need to, or not! Its your business.
@AngelUnforgiven If you know that the spouse does not approve or is uncomfortable with the situation...then perhaps one should not do it at all. Thank you for responding. ☺
@Zonuss its not physical. If a person is so jealous or has such low self esteem that they get angry or jealous over something that someone else is seeing with their own eyes then the problem does not lie with them. You may as well tell your spouse to keep their eyes on the ground and to not look at anything that you don't approve of. And you're quite welcome!
Again I've dated WOMEN that's watched P*rn on their phone and I never said nothing.. I don't get why people make a big deal out of that... Just like I've seen online people debate weather having an AI Boyfriend or Girlfriend is cheating... And as jealous and possessive as I am in a relationship if I was with a woman and she had an AI boyfriend on her phone I wouldn't be mad... So I don't get this... To me cheating is PHYSICALLY Touching someone.. So P*rn and AI?? 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷
@Zonuss OMG... Sooo S*x toys... I mean that would be the same as using a s*x toy I guess and that's NOT a "person" Soo I guess again that's not cheating 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nope but it can impact your relationship. It can also possibly influence you to cheat. It can also make it difficult to have romantic and sexual feelings for your spouse. I will argue though it could potentially spice things up with your spouse. Like show you new thing you can do with them. So if you watch it, watch it moderately and be smart about it
My general rule of thumb is that if you can't tell your partner you are doing it out of fear they will get angry or upset then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
I think by default the answer is no. But based on conversations or agreements between partners it could be.
I think marriage shouldn't be limited to monogamy and that the federal, states and local governments has no business in marriages or any type of relationships.
That gets around the whole religious social control of all these issues.
No I don't I think that is some bullshit and also I think a spouse should be into that kind of thing with her man. Variety and spice is what keeps a marriage or a relationship strong
@Zonuss Though it’s not my type of viewing content, it’s a non-issue for me. If it’s occasional viewing, that’s fine. It would only probably be an issue if it’s almost like an addiction to watching that stuff. Thankfully I’ve never had anyone in my life who had a porn addiction.
@Zonuss not a word that I like, because it equates truth with lies, and the doctrines of demons with the truth of the Living God, but I do belong to the Living God, bought by the blood of His son
