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AngelUnforgiven ยท 51-55, F
I dont feel that it is. But the thing is if you know that your spouse has a problem with it, why not just enjoy it in private out of respect for that person when your alone. You don't have to rub it in their faces and they dont even have to know about it, you're an adult, you can do whatever your heart desires just be respectful. Thats how i see it. Have that conversation if you feel you need to, or not! Its your business.
Zonuss ยท 46-50, M
@AngelUnforgiven If you know that the spouse does not approve or is uncomfortable with the situation...then perhaps one should not do it at all. Thank you for responding. โบ
AngelUnforgiven ยท 51-55, F
@Zonuss its not physical. If a person is so jealous or has such low self esteem that they get angry or jealous over something that someone else is seeing with their own eyes then the problem does not lie with them. You may as well tell your spouse to keep their eyes on the ground and to not look at anything that you don't approve of. And you're quite welcome!