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OogieBoogie · F
Oh gosh...ive asked this question.
I struggle with it.....i think.
I always assumed it was this zen state of a still mind.
But its not.
...its almost like my mind gets busier.
However - others have helped set me on a good track.
We cant really stop our thinking - our brains are wired to do it.
What we can do is become aware of what we are thinking ...
....and enact control over NOT thinking it.
To do this we can focus on our breath, or the wind in the trees or the ticking of a clock - something calming.
The idea is - the more you notice you are thinking , and the more you bring it back to something relaxing - the better you get at it.
You may do this heaps and heaps of times while meditating - but that's ok, that's the point of practicing.
And this is where the 'peace' comes in.
It means that in normal everyday life, wjen you start to stress out or get anxious or angry or whatever - you can draw on your brain training during meditation - and let those thoughts go .
You also dont have to sit to meditate.
Allow yourself to find the best way that suits you - some do it while walking🤷♀
Its also not something you have to do for hours - just 5 or 10 minites when you can .
(Regularly is good tho)
I struggle with it.....i think.
I always assumed it was this zen state of a still mind.
But its not.
...its almost like my mind gets busier.
However - others have helped set me on a good track.
We cant really stop our thinking - our brains are wired to do it.
What we can do is become aware of what we are thinking ...
....and enact control over NOT thinking it.
To do this we can focus on our breath, or the wind in the trees or the ticking of a clock - something calming.
The idea is - the more you notice you are thinking , and the more you bring it back to something relaxing - the better you get at it.
You may do this heaps and heaps of times while meditating - but that's ok, that's the point of practicing.
And this is where the 'peace' comes in.
It means that in normal everyday life, wjen you start to stress out or get anxious or angry or whatever - you can draw on your brain training during meditation - and let those thoughts go .
You also dont have to sit to meditate.
Allow yourself to find the best way that suits you - some do it while walking🤷♀
Its also not something you have to do for hours - just 5 or 10 minites when you can .
(Regularly is good tho)
Usually once a day for an hour, Vipassana, as taught by Syadaw U Janaka.
- peace
- better understanding of how my body functions
- deeper observation and pattern recognition
- directly understanding the sequence: perception, feeling, interpretation, emotion
- seeing the link between volition and action
- developing a degree of equanimity towards pain and pleasure, both pass,
- seeing that the ego is just a construct, necessary for functioning in this conditional world, but a potential danger or trap if one identifies with it, eg toxic shame, pride, arrogance, anger
- greater compassion and empathy for others by fully experiencing one's own pain without evasion, and learning from it
- applying one's full attention to what ever the task at hand might be.
- ever so slowly creeping towards maturity
- emnity dissappears, friendships develop
- peace
- better understanding of how my body functions
- deeper observation and pattern recognition
- directly understanding the sequence: perception, feeling, interpretation, emotion
- seeing the link between volition and action
- developing a degree of equanimity towards pain and pleasure, both pass,
- seeing that the ego is just a construct, necessary for functioning in this conditional world, but a potential danger or trap if one identifies with it, eg toxic shame, pride, arrogance, anger
- greater compassion and empathy for others by fully experiencing one's own pain without evasion, and learning from it
- applying one's full attention to what ever the task at hand might be.
- ever so slowly creeping towards maturity
- emnity dissappears, friendships develop
SW-User
Never. I contemplate. Much better than an empty mind.
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OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User it can, that's true.
But it cant train a mind to deal with chaos and unwanted thoughts.
Contemplation is to meditation, as focus is to control.
They are not the same.
That's all im saying .
But it cant train a mind to deal with chaos and unwanted thoughts.
Contemplation is to meditation, as focus is to control.
They are not the same.
That's all im saying .
SW-User
@OogieBoogie I don't need to meditate before I contemplate. Others possibly do.
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User im not doubting that.
Im just correcting that meditation isnt about an empty mind as you said, its about learning to control ones thoughts.
A clear mind isnt an empty one - there is a difference.
Im just correcting that meditation isnt about an empty mind as you said, its about learning to control ones thoughts.
A clear mind isnt an empty one - there is a difference.
GuiltyBiStander · 31-35, F
Sometimes.
And I am interested in techniques from both Buddhist and Hindu traditions. But honestly it's hard for me to find time and space to get deep into formal practice.
What does seem to work for me is a kind of movement exercise that combines yoga & tai chi in sort of a flow that keeps me fit and relieves stress. On some level the "mindfulness" thing is there, and maybe higher consciousness will come later.
Or not ... 😎
And I am interested in techniques from both Buddhist and Hindu traditions. But honestly it's hard for me to find time and space to get deep into formal practice.
What does seem to work for me is a kind of movement exercise that combines yoga & tai chi in sort of a flow that keeps me fit and relieves stress. On some level the "mindfulness" thing is there, and maybe higher consciousness will come later.
Or not ... 😎
I try to. It slows me down and I am able to clear my mind enough to realize there are certain thoughts I don't want. I practice daily so maybe in 20 years I'll be good at it.
tactical360 · 56-60, M
I hear the word "meditate" thrown around an aweful lot. Let me just ask two questions. First , how do you meditate? Secondly, what do you meditate on?
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
Well, not like sitting down. I think about God and my Storylines all the time.
AnnabelleLeigh · F
I do. To try and bring peace and healing and it helped me process a lot of trauma.
When I was going through major depression it helped me .
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Yes I do. It gives me an immense sense of inner peace
nedkelly · 61-69, M
No, I will chill out listening to music
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
i've never been able to master it.
@darkmere1983 Have you tried a 10-day Vipassana course?
It does not require that one either have or give up any belief.
They're "free", and at the end one gives a donation according to one's means. You decide what you can afford. Your gift goes towards the next student's costs of food and lodging.
The people who cook are donating their time; they are long term meditators.
The teacher teaches for free, has a job to support him/herself.
There is no obligation to continue - but quite a few people do because they find benefit in it.
It does not require that one either have or give up any belief.
They're "free", and at the end one gives a donation according to one's means. You decide what you can afford. Your gift goes towards the next student's costs of food and lodging.
The people who cook are donating their time; they are long term meditators.
The teacher teaches for free, has a job to support him/herself.
There is no obligation to continue - but quite a few people do because they find benefit in it.
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
I do, sometimes.
Sutten · 36-40, F
How does one meditate?
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Kinda sorta.
Not the close your eyes and thinking of nothing stuff. I do mindfulness.
My anxiety is like a quarter of what it used to be.
Not the close your eyes and thinking of nothing stuff. I do mindfulness.
My anxiety is like a quarter of what it used to be.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
I fail to do that.. each time I try, I smell something burning on stove or laundry to be done or dishes, or last date of bills
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