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All these people celebrating

Anniversaries and I’m “celebrating” yet another year as a single, can’t help but feel like a loser. ☹️🤷🏻‍♀️
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Better to be single than trapped in a house and relationship you can't escape from...
SW-User
@HootyTheNightOwl you’re 100% right. 🤗
GunFinger · F
You're not a loser. How about people like me who have anniversaries, but are never really happy? Enjoy yourself. Go out and reconnect with old friends. Just saw my sister-in-law do it in Bali. Her life is amazing.
SW-User
@GunFinger you’re right, definitely happier alone than in a bad relationship like pretty all of them. 🤦🏻‍♀️
SW-User
Other people don't see you that way though. Some of those people celebrating anniversaries aren't as happy as they appear and may secretly envy you your freedom.
SW-User
@SW-User you’re probably right
Tell me you didn’t just equate lack of success with singleness 🤨
SW-User
@BeefySenpie no, it’s just I saw myself as in a way different position than I am in now.
Picklebobble2 · 61-69, M
A lot of us feel like this !
Personally I just think if you leave yourself open to the possibility..... you never know
Convivial · 26-30, F
Not alone, rather more free to choose...
SW-User
@Convivial this is true
Convivial · 26-30, F
@SW-User good your dreams hun... They don't always work out but it's better than aiming at nothing

Hugs
SW-User
@Convivial wise words, thank you ☺️
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SW-User
@BrandonWyatt36 I’m good I talk to a few nice men.
SW-User
I feel this way, and it hurts, and I have been in deep love twice, always the one to leave, it's not consolation when you leave, it just affirms who you loved deeply that learned to see we were toxic together, or naive. You are from a loser, you're only holding onto a prayer, a wish, to feel with someone the way you want to feel with them.

And that's actually healthy, all the while it can make you wonder, where did it all go? Would you want a marriage without love? As much I hate parting, and I feel lonely, while I still love them, that love was yesterday (years ago)....

Pucker up, you'll meet your man somewhere, may it be at the supermarket, a dating site, or a rendevouz on your canoe.... You just will.
SW-User
@SW-User you’re right. ☺️
SW-User
Aw, I’m sorry, sometimes it’s for the best. Did you ever get married?
SW-User
@SW-User I did in 2003, separated in 2008 and divorced in 2014. That one was the practice marriage. 😅
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
But you're footloose and fancy free. That is something to celebrate.
SW-User
You're doing great🕊️
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
No you are the winner 🥇 🏆
SW-User
You are definitely not a loser!

While it may very well be better to be with the right person than alone, it is definitely better to be alone than with the wrong person. I have learned that lesson in different ways multiple times unfortunately. Keep your head up, knowing that you are the only person who can truly make yourself happy, and that you're not going to settle for something that's not right for you. 😊 💙
SW-User
@SW-User you’re right I’m just having a day.
SW-User
@SW-User We all do
Selah ·
Just close your eyes and pick a man.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
im terminally single
it bites man 💁‍♂️
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You’re not a loser at all.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 thanks, it’s just the way I’m feeling
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I understand but you don’t want to be with someone and not be happy.

You will find the one, you’re too much of a catch not too.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 thank you ☺️

 
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