What's the hardest thing you've had to accept?

@Spoiledbrat Omg hope ur ok. Id never even heard of it before. Barbara was riddled with cancer though and tumour had caused rupture. What exactly happened to you?

@Spoiledbrat Well im so glad ur ok and sorry u experienced that. Yes its scary and sad. Nothing could have stopped it aparently.

@Pinkstarburst I completely empathize. I'm also not a mother, don't have children

@SW-User 😢

@nedkelly Geesus fucking hell mate. Im sorry :(

@nedkelly Unimaginably tough, the loss of a child! I imagine no parent wants a child to die before them. Condolences Ned

@nedkelly hugs x

@Gentlemickey Aww Condolences. It's going to take time to grieve her loss. Crying, missing her - she obviously meant a lot to you

@bookerdana Let's say it's a semicolon! People live on in memories, in our hearts. It's another kind of time

Tis okay,as the great Stan Laurel said in A Chump at Oxford,I'm just having another one of those dizzy Spells!" 😜

@bookerdana :)

@SW-User Oh wow! Why?!! Very difficult, but I hope you can come to terms with this somehow

@5thApprentice How true, and how difficult to accept, yes

@Kimmler I always am ... I feel like I have to be

@SW-User I hope you'll be able to give yourself a break

@Jamessz Big loses, yes. Condolences

@Xion9 You will find love I have no doubt :)

I know it seems that way, but I promise you it won't remain that way. I have witnessed this wonderful miracle first hand; just after the person finally allowed themselves to open their heart to the possibility of love again, it happened. And it happened in a way they never imagined. Remain hopeful and keep your heart open. This too will pass, and everything will change. This much I know. Good luck! @Xion9

@GlamGirl let's hope that's not the case.

@GlamGirl Do you mean loved by your family?

@LordSillio Can you say more, explain what happened?

@SW-User maybe I should rephrase.. I convinced myself I knew what's best for me.. it turns out, I betrayed my own life..

@LordSillio I'm sorry. A hard thing to realise, to face. Brave that you did. It takes courage!

@JanBos2 That is tough!! I totally understand ;)

@ohplease Well, imho good for you to accept this! Most of us are just ordinary! What is wrong with that? ;)

@SW-User Nothing wrong with that. I used to had a foolish thought that it was all for something..like something better was just around the corner lurking. it all had to have meaning. It's not like that and it's ok it was just a hard thought to accept.

@ohplease Maybe it's harder in this celebrity obsessed world. But, hope something better is just around the corner!

@SW-User thanks for asking my dad had to have a operation on his heart as they don't think its strong enough to survive the operation to remove the cancer my mom on tablets to try and shrink hers as it to big to operated on so it just a matter of waiting

@Happyguy123 Welcome
I'm sorry, it sounds very difficult. Hope you're all being well supported

@SW-User its hard as I live 230 miles from them so I have to try and get down to them as often as I can

@TeresaRudolph71 You perhaps have something far better than these illusions.

@SW-User I think perhaps I do. I actually have something real, though it's less than perfect. I've also found out that I'm less than perfect, but I am at least able to work on that. What I have (and what I am) is a work in progress. But that illusion would have gotten me nowhere. So in the end yes, I suppose reality is better, though it takes real work.

@TeresaRudolph71 What shines through to me in the brief exchanges we've had are the qualities that you have (but maybe don't see).

@Carver That is tough, but maybe it's not true either?

@SW-User How are things now?

@1stexhub :(

@1stexhub ☹️

@SW-User Thank you. I'm still trying, but not hopeful.

@OzDiver Maybe if your marriage survives it'll be stronger than ever; if it does end, a much-needed new beginning. Good luck :)

@SW-User You are right. Thank you for your kind words. :)

[@RodneyTrotter Save on sun ran lotion though!

@RodneyTrotter Exactly!

@BabyLonia Aww,I'm sorry

@BabyLonia 😢

@sogdianrock Any clues? ;)

hi Literaturegirl
am computing
Best wishes
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@Gilhooly True enough, but as adults we have the power! ;)

@SW-User I have the power to grieve deeply, and I do.. I have the capacity to transform...not so much power over as inner strength under

@Gilhooly Yes, not power over but inner, the power to transform

@SW-User really how come?

@popmol I'm intuitive, rather than logical. I rely on others for the logical stuff :)

@SW-User yeah but if all scientist say vaccines don't cause autism. but lots of people randomly somewhere on the web said it does and boom lots of people don't give their kids vaccines and the once dying illnesses are now coming back in society.

@therighttothink50 Sadly life isn't fair

@SW-User true my fine feathered tory ;) hehe :)

@therighttothink50 Hahaha! ;)

@vss1234 Haha! You have an easy life then eh?

@SW-User can't say i do. I lose them and they are pretty HARD to find!

@YoMomma Haha, oh dear! ;)

Lol 😊😊🤗

@SW-User Life isn't fair that's true. Stick with those who love you, and ignore the idiot haters?

@cyanlilac Why full of hate? :(

@SW-User the violenc from homophobia is horrible.

@cyanlilac Ah, OK. Understand. I hope things get better for you both

@Spoiledbrat She does not like it with anyone else either. I found out about her dating habits.

Why did you marry her? It seems odd to me that she would bother. She’d be better off alone. @LTKISS

@Spoiledbrat Yes that is a good question. I worried about it because she would not kiss me before and during our engagement, Her dad said she would change. It was against my gut feeling though.

@SW-User Isn't there a saying, God helps those who help themselves? :)

@SW-User That one is bullshit too I'm afraid.

@Barebum61 Oh, OK :)

@BozoBoy Well, I doubt that's true. Be kinder to yourself?

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Wise words, imho :)

@Kimmler Sincere is good
Life is full of surprises, and not necessarily nice ones!