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Would u date a bisexual man or woman?

And why not?
And by the way. You worrying they are going to cheat on you is not a good enough answer for me lol
So if that’s your answer, don’t reply
I’ve heard it way too much before lol

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4meAndyou · F

I married one. However, he decided to keep that a secret until after we were married. It was a huge thing not to tell me.

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4meAndyou · F

@JesseMccC I have married almost every man who was seriously interested in me. 🤭

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@4meAndyou yeah but u couldn’t possibly marry all the bisexual men in the world lol
So u don’t know what most of them are like lol

4meAndyou · F

@JesseMccC No. You can't know every person in the world, can you? But...I did make an effort. 😂

Effloresce · 26-30, F

I’m bi and I would totally date me

SW-User

Nah it would make me really uncomfortable to think that my partner has been in a man too 😖

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JesseMccC · 26-30, M

I understand but I was just comparing it to sexuality. I wasn’t comparing it to the whole lgbt community.
And I understand how much pressure trans people are under now. I also understand how ignored they are and under represented. I can relate@SW-User

Stark

@JesseMccC Why does she have to be into bi men to not be a homophobe ? Lol

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@Stark because it seemed like the only reason she didn’t want to date a bi guy is because thinking of her boyfriend being with a man was uncomfortable to her
So I thought that meant that the thought any two guys together made her uncomfortable

MarmeeMarch · M

No such thing as Bi - either you are one way or the other. Dont mask homosexuality by calling yourself BI

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JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@MarmeeMarch ok
That’s what makes me bi and not gay
When I’m attracted to a man. I want to have sex with him. When I’m attracted to a women, I want to have sex with her.
And I will always feel this way
I can’t say I’m gay because I still feel this way about women
That’s why it’s impossible for me to say I’m gay.
I tried when I was young, as I said.
Saying you are someone you are not is terrible. I felt like I lied to my family. I felt so depressed and tried so many times to kill my self
Labels May mean nothing to u but they mean absolutely everything to me. I don’t think I would be alive to me if I didn’t discover my true self

MarmeeMarch · M

@JesseMccC Well you have a good life and be happy, thats what matters at the end of the day. Right ?

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@MarmeeMarch thanks

Stark

Lol, no not seriously there’s just a lot of things I’d be into fantasy wise but in reality it’s a turn off for me or it’s just not something I’d enjoy long term or just one of those weird kinks I’d get if I was crazy horny and everything was a turn on but afterwards I’d lose interest. I just naturally see men who sleep with other men more feminine whether they are or not which is a turn off for me 🤷🏽‍♀️. I don’t care what they’re into or who they’re into but it’s not something I’m really into and I don’t think I or anyone should have to have a “good enough” reason for not being into bi people to be okay lol.

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JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@Stark I wanted to hear some other reasons that’s all

Stark

@JesseMccC well that’s the reasons people have. It is what it is man.

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@Stark yeah that’s fine but I was just letting people know before they posted it
I’m not trying to start fights here

SW-User

no, that's gross. gay is not okay in this house

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SW-User

@LAlexV you're hot you don't count

LAlexV · M

@SW-User whoa you just called me hot where did this come from. 2019 made.

SW-User

@LAlexV uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh nvm

Greymatter1001 · 56-60, M

1. Yes I would date a bi sexual women, because it could be fun.

2. Like a lot of people I will cut to the chase. It doesn't really matter if you are bi, straight, or gay. What DOES matter is that you are honest about who you are. Take it from an old man who has made lots of mistakes, trying to pretend you are something you are not will only lead to prolonged pain and misery. Be who you are and don't apologizes for it. Someone will love you just the way you are.

LAlexV · M

Yes. I am bisexual. I'm just as deserving of love as anyone.

England66 · 61-69, M

Yes and have its the person I'm interested in

Synyster · 51-55, M

Because i'm 100% heterosexual and I love women, everything about them.

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Synyster · 51-55, M

@JesseMccC Sure, I guess I grew up old school and have always been this way.

It's worked for me quite well, why change it?

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

@Synyster u wouldn’t even try once?
What if it turns out that your perfect partner is bisexual

Synyster · 51-55, M

@JesseMccC Nah, I'm good the way it is. Again, why bother trying if it's always worked well for me.

There's NO perfect partner.

BrattyMel · 31-35, F

I am bi...so yeah...

Kevin19 · 22-25, M

Honestly I’ve found people who are bi find it easier to date multiple people so id be worried about it.

But I’d date a girl who considers herself bi. At the end of the day why not?

Nikkizara · 22-25, F

I would definitely I’m bi too jess
I never understand why women could be so judgemental over something so stupid as bisexuality

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

@Nikkizara I have found female bisexuality more accepted than male bisexuality. It's slowly changing but it's not yet equal.

SW-User

No I wouldn't. Not that I think they all cheat. I just wouldn't because it's not wise to assume every person you come date will not cheat on you. Whether straight,gay or bi. Cheating happens but if by some chance i'm dating a bi guy and he cheats and leaves me for someone of a different gender than me...that would oddly hurt more than being left for someone of my same gender.

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

But why? I just don’t get it lol @SW-User

SW-User

Neither do I but don't let it frustrate you. You are who you are. No one should feel guilty for what they are. Plenty of people don't care about what your sexuality is.

BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F

@JesseMccC @SW-User

She's right, it just does. I know because I've heard it and felt it.

Losing love means pain.

Keaten · 36-40, M

I would date a bisexual woman. Their sexuality doesn't bother me. Plus, they seem more open-minded.

Fernie · F

If I were Bi it'd be fine...otherwise.. I need them to pick a lane

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Fernie · F

@Effloresce Please pay attention to what you are looking at...I NEVER said never...I spoke in the "I" meaning I spoke from my own personal experience...it had nothing to do with the person who is Bi. Stop attaching things to my words.I am 3 times your age and have had many, many,many more experiences in that world than you have.

Effloresce · 26-30, F

Chill out dude some clarification was all that was needed @Fernie

Fernie · F

@Effloresce There you go again kid...because I uppercased a few words to bring my point home...you think I'm upset which is absolutely not true. You really do see things in a most negative way

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

I am bisexual, so I would (and have) dated bisexual men and women.

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

Yes I would. They would understand my bisexuality too

chrisCA · M

I have dated two bi women in the past.

Elinoria · 100+, F

No. My husband would fire me.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Sure. Bisexual stigma is bullshit.

midnightrose · F

If I were dating, I would.

LUVELACE · T

Yes of course,

SW-User

Nope

Goralski · 56-60, M

No....I don't need a woman that's mo confused

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Goralski · 56-60, M

@Fernie but they have to b in order to date me:(

Fernie · F

@Goralski Well, that's true!

Goralski · 56-60, M

@Fernie 🥺

JesseMccC · 26-30, M

I see a lot of people saying no but hardly any reasons lol

Fernie · F

@JesseMccC I was involved with two different Bi sexuals. Neither of them could fully commit. I'm not judging their Bisexuality at all...It was my personal experience and I won't go there again