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4meAndyou · F
I married one. However, he decided to keep that a secret until after we were married. It was a huge thing not to tell me.
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Effloresce · 26-30, F
I’m bi and I would totally date me
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Nah it would make me really uncomfortable to think that my partner has been in a man too 😖
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I understand but I was just comparing it to sexuality. I wasn’t comparing it to the whole lgbt community.
And I understand how much pressure trans people are under now. I also understand how ignored they are and under represented. I can relate@SW-User
And I understand how much pressure trans people are under now. I also understand how ignored they are and under represented. I can relate@SW-User
MarmeeMarch · M
No such thing as Bi - either you are one way or the other. Dont mask homosexuality by calling yourself BI
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch ok
That’s what makes me bi and not gay
When I’m attracted to a man. I want to have sex with him. When I’m attracted to a women, I want to have sex with her.
And I will always feel this way
I can’t say I’m gay because I still feel this way about women
That’s why it’s impossible for me to say I’m gay.
I tried when I was young, as I said.
Saying you are someone you are not is terrible. I felt like I lied to my family. I felt so depressed and tried so many times to kill my self
Labels May mean nothing to u but they mean absolutely everything to me. I don’t think I would be alive to me if I didn’t discover my true self
That’s what makes me bi and not gay
When I’m attracted to a man. I want to have sex with him. When I’m attracted to a women, I want to have sex with her.
And I will always feel this way
I can’t say I’m gay because I still feel this way about women
That’s why it’s impossible for me to say I’m gay.
I tried when I was young, as I said.
Saying you are someone you are not is terrible. I felt like I lied to my family. I felt so depressed and tried so many times to kill my self
Labels May mean nothing to u but they mean absolutely everything to me. I don’t think I would be alive to me if I didn’t discover my true self
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC Well you have a good life and be happy, thats what matters at the end of the day. Right ?
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch thanks
Lol, no not seriously there’s just a lot of things I’d be into fantasy wise but in reality it’s a turn off for me or it’s just not something I’d enjoy long term or just one of those weird kinks I’d get if I was crazy horny and everything was a turn on but afterwards I’d lose interest. I just naturally see men who sleep with other men more feminine whether they are or not which is a turn off for me 🤷🏽♀️. I don’t care what they’re into or who they’re into but it’s not something I’m really into and I don’t think I or anyone should have to have a “good enough” reason for not being into bi people to be okay lol.
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no, that's gross. gay is not okay in this house
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@LAlexV you're hot you don't count
LAlexV · M
@SW-User whoa you just called me hot where did this come from. 2019 made.
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@LAlexV uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh nvm
Greymatter1001 · 56-60, M
1. Yes I would date a bi sexual women, because it could be fun.
2. Like a lot of people I will cut to the chase. It doesn't really matter if you are bi, straight, or gay. What DOES matter is that you are honest about who you are. Take it from an old man who has made lots of mistakes, trying to pretend you are something you are not will only lead to prolonged pain and misery. Be who you are and don't apologizes for it. Someone will love you just the way you are.
2. Like a lot of people I will cut to the chase. It doesn't really matter if you are bi, straight, or gay. What DOES matter is that you are honest about who you are. Take it from an old man who has made lots of mistakes, trying to pretend you are something you are not will only lead to prolonged pain and misery. Be who you are and don't apologizes for it. Someone will love you just the way you are.
LAlexV · M
Yes. I am bisexual. I'm just as deserving of love as anyone.
England66 · 61-69, M
Yes and have its the person I'm interested in
Synyster · 51-55, M
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Because i'm 100% heterosexual and I love women, everything about them.
BrattyMel · 31-35, F
I am bi...so yeah...
Kevin19 · 22-25, M
Honestly I’ve found people who are bi find it easier to date multiple people so id be worried about it.
But I’d date a girl who considers herself bi. At the end of the day why not?
But I’d date a girl who considers herself bi. At the end of the day why not?
Nikkizara · 22-25, F
I would definitely I’m bi too jess
I never understand why women could be so judgemental over something so stupid as bisexuality
I never understand why women could be so judgemental over something so stupid as bisexuality
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@Nikkizara I have found female bisexuality more accepted than male bisexuality. It's slowly changing but it's not yet equal.
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No I wouldn't. Not that I think they all cheat. I just wouldn't because it's not wise to assume every person you come date will not cheat on you. Whether straight,gay or bi. Cheating happens but if by some chance i'm dating a bi guy and he cheats and leaves me for someone of a different gender than me...that would oddly hurt more than being left for someone of my same gender.
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
But why? I just don’t get it lol @SW-User
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Neither do I but don't let it frustrate you. You are who you are. No one should feel guilty for what they are. Plenty of people don't care about what your sexuality is.
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
@JesseMccC @SW-User
She's right, it just does. I know because I've heard it and felt it.
Losing love means pain.
She's right, it just does. I know because I've heard it and felt it.
Losing love means pain.
Keaten · 36-40, M
I would date a bisexual woman. Their sexuality doesn't bother me. Plus, they seem more open-minded.
Fernie · F
If I were Bi it'd be fine...otherwise.. I need them to pick a lane
Fernie · F
@Effloresce Please pay attention to what you are looking at...I NEVER said never...I spoke in the "I" meaning I spoke from my own personal experience...it had nothing to do with the person who is Bi. Stop attaching things to my words.I am 3 times your age and have had many, many,many more experiences in that world than you have.
Effloresce · 26-30, F
Chill out dude some clarification was all that was needed @Fernie
Fernie · F
@Effloresce There you go again kid...because I uppercased a few words to bring my point home...you think I'm upset which is absolutely not true. You really do see things in a most negative way
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I am bisexual, so I would (and have) dated bisexual men and women.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
Yes I would. They would understand my bisexuality too
chrisCA · M
I have dated two bi women in the past.
Elinoria · 100+, F
No. My husband would fire me.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Sure. Bisexual stigma is bullshit.
midnightrose · F
If I were dating, I would.
LUVELACE · T
Yes of course,
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Nope
Goralski · 51-55, M
No....I don't need a woman that's mo confused
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I see a lot of people saying no but hardly any reasons lol
DDonde · 31-35, M
Of course.
Edit: Just to clarify, "bisexual" does not describe what they do sexually, it just describes who they are attracted to.
Edit: Just to clarify, "bisexual" does not describe what they do sexually, it just describes who they are attracted to.
voodoo1970 · 51-55, M
Yes, have done, would do again
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
I have.
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
How was it? @BatRinseRepeat
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thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Absolutely! :)
Bagalamaga · 56-60, M
Not for me
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JesseMccC · 26-30, M
Why do some heterosexual people date bisexual people perfectly fine? Were they not “wired” too@SW-User
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