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MarmeeMarch · M
No such thing as Bi - either you are one way or the other. Dont mask homosexuality by calling yourself BI
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JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch So my bisexual friend who is a guy. And almost 60 years old
Has been “masking” his homosexuality for 40 years
even tho he has dated guys and girls. Even tho he kisses his boyfriend in public.
Is “masking” his homosexuality?
Why would he do that?
What is masking?
Has been “masking” his homosexuality for 40 years
even tho he has dated guys and girls. Even tho he kisses his boyfriend in public.
Is “masking” his homosexuality?
Why would he do that?
What is masking?
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@BatRinseRepeat THANK YOU! 🙌🙏
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC When I say "mask" I dont mean hide. Masking homosexuality is just what I term the reluctance to say you are homosexual - by calling yourself BI you are not committing to one side or another. And you play it safe - in your mind you are homosexual but claim to be BI so you are not pigeon holed into one group. You all know what it is - I am not the bad guy here and I am not degrading homosexuality or heterosexually at all I am just calling it the way I see it.. BI is political correctness gone wild. Why can't people just be what they feel and not have to create another term for it.
MarmeeMarch · M
@BatRinseRepeat You call it ignorance - I call it just - as they say "keeping it real"
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch I think girls are really hot
I think guys are really hot
I think trans people are hot
I fall in love with people. Not gender
That’s all that needs to be said
I think guys are really hot
I think trans people are hot
I fall in love with people. Not gender
That’s all that needs to be said
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC and that's you - so when you say as a man you think guys are hot does that mean you can have a sexual relationship with one ? and would you ?
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I came out as gay once actually
I dated a guy.
Then after he broke up with me.
I fell in love with a girl.
Then I had to tell my parents ,that I had already told I was gay, that now I was dating a girl
It’s just too confusing for me to keep swapping sides like that.
It’s mentally damaging and makes me really depressed.
It’s so much easier for bi people like me to come out as bi
I dated a guy.
Then after he broke up with me.
I fell in love with a girl.
Then I had to tell my parents ,that I had already told I was gay, that now I was dating a girl
It’s just too confusing for me to keep swapping sides like that.
It’s mentally damaging and makes me really depressed.
It’s so much easier for bi people like me to come out as bi
SAandME · 56-60, M
@MarmeeMarch What a load of old tosh, why should you commit to one or the other. I prefer women, i only have long term relationships with women, i only kiss women but yet i have sexual encounters with men when the mood takes so by your workings i am homosexual 😂🤣
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC I suppose - I am not gay but I dont label myself hetero
MarmeeMarch · M
@SAandME can we agree that when you are with a man you are homosexual and when you are with a woman you are hetero ?
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch that’s because u don’t need to label yourself
We do
We do
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch no because bisexual is about who you are attracted to. Not who you’re dating
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC Is that so - ? why is that ? why on Earth does anyone have to have a sexual orientation label ?
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC I have seen good looking men - does that make me BI - even if I only date women ?
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@MarmeeMarch I literally just gave u a paragraph as to why
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC I dont need a paragraph - you live your life
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
@MarmeeMarch
If you want to keep it real stop pretending.
Bisexuality pretty much explains itself: You're sexually attracted to males and females, and you actually have and enjoy sex with both men and women. When this goes on past adolesencent years into adulthood it becomes part of your identity.
It doesn't change, and there's no more "confusion" than there is in the ups and downs of most heterosexual relationships.
If you want to keep it real stop pretending.
Bisexuality pretty much explains itself: You're sexually attracted to males and females, and you actually have and enjoy sex with both men and women. When this goes on past adolesencent years into adulthood it becomes part of your identity.
It doesn't change, and there's no more "confusion" than there is in the ups and downs of most heterosexual relationships.
MarmeeMarch · M
@BatRinseRepeat yea - I will think what I want and you think the way U want - do I have permission to think the way I want ?
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
What makes us differnt is that when I see a good looking man or woman I might wanna have a relationship with them or maybe have sex with them . You don’t
That’s why im bisexual and ur not. @MarmeeMarch
That’s why im bisexual and ur not. @MarmeeMarch
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
@MarmeeMarch
You have permission to put whatever you want into your own head.
But what comes out of your mouth in public is eveyones business.
Just keeping it real bro ✌
You have permission to put whatever you want into your own head.
But what comes out of your mouth in public is eveyones business.
Just keeping it real bro ✌
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC I know but when you are having the relationship - call it what U want but I would call it a homosexual relationship AT THAT TIME if you are having sex a man and a woman at the same time then it is BI
MarmeeMarch · M
@BatRinseRepeat Well you know my opinion - so yes its your business to comment or not. I could care less. I dont make laws or rules.
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
As I said bisexual is being attracted to men and women always
Just because I’m with a man at that time doesn’t mean I’m not still attracted to women
@MarmeeMarch
Just because I’m with a man at that time doesn’t mean I’m not still attracted to women
@MarmeeMarch
MarmeeMarch · M
@JesseMccC of course I can read
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