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Nah it would make me really uncomfortable to think that my partner has been in a man too 😖
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@SW-User im not hating. I’m just informing but that sounds like internalised homophobia

SW-User
@JesseMccC Idc its just not for me
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@SW-User but your disgusted with the thought of two men having sex?

SW-User
@JesseMccC Way to put words in my mouth 🙄
I just meant I wouldn’t date a bi guy
I just meant I wouldn’t date a bi guy
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
U said it would make u uncomfortable to know ur guy has been with a guy.
What else would u be uncomfortable about?@SW-User
What else would u be uncomfortable about?@SW-User

SW-User
@JesseMccC Yeah, but I couldn’t care less about who random people fuck
It would also make me insecure to think he fancies men
It would also make me insecure to think he fancies men
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
@SW-User why does it make u insecure?

SW-User
@JesseMccC Because I don’t like the idea of it, idk whats so difficult to understand 😂
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
U don’t like the idea of a man being attracted to another man?@SW-User

SW-User
@JesseMccC Lmao way to start a fight 🙄
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I’m just trying to figure this out, I can’t find another reason as to why u don’t like the idea of it@SW-User

SW-User
@JesseMccC Ok I’ll say it again, I’m not comfortable with it, thats it
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I’m sorry if this is annoying
It’s just that. Girls rejecting me just because I’m bisexual has always baffled me. Girls never seem to have a reason that makes sense to me@SW-User
It’s just that. Girls rejecting me just because I’m bisexual has always baffled me. Girls never seem to have a reason that makes sense to me@SW-User

SW-User
@JesseMccC That’s okay I do know I have an internal bias, I hope you find an accepting person soon
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
U probably don’t realise it but this is the reason why so many more bisexuals are suicidal then any other sexuality’s @SW-User

SW-User
@JesseMccC Sorry about that, I hope the general mentality changes soon

SW-User
@JesseMccC I refuse to believe that. I need a source because to my understanding, transgender people were the most likely to commit suicide and last I checked, it wasn't because no one would date them. I'm not dismissing suicide as it's a serious thing but that truly does not sound like the true reasoning. If anything, i'd say societal pressures to be anything but what they are is the key token to this but not finding people who want to date them doesn't sound like a realistic reason.
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
Isn’t trans an identity not a sexuality?@SW-User
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
Sorry if I was confusing. I was just talking about sexuality, mostly gay, straight and lesbian. @SW-User

SW-User
It's distinct but still is as much apart of the LGBT community as the others.

SW-User
@JesseMccC If just those three then...I guess it would make sense.
JesseMccC · 26-30, M
I understand but I was just comparing it to sexuality. I wasn’t comparing it to the whole lgbt community.
And I understand how much pressure trans people are under now. I also understand how ignored they are and under represented. I can relate@SW-User
And I understand how much pressure trans people are under now. I also understand how ignored they are and under represented. I can relate@SW-User