I personally can’t stand the thought of someone else telling me when I can and can’t be sexually active and with whom.. I don’t give a rats ass if you think it’s wrong and disgusting.. it’s my body.. how about I tell you what you can and can’t eat smoke and drink? Until then fuck you and stay out of my life..
But I do know there needs to be some rules.
The problem is how to allow sexual freedom to those like me and to protect those who don’t.....
Here is how I would approach it as law, because we still want to protect the innocent from predators.....
No prosecution of individuals within 10 years age difference if both parties are consenting.
No photos/videos of boys/girls under 12.. period.
After this, it’s the responsibility of parents to have taught their child modesty morality and how to respect her body, and respect her parents wishes.. don’t worry about other kids, that’s someone else’s problem, you worry about teaching your kids your morality YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE!!!!
The older individual must show a reasonable intent to pursue a lasting relationship towards marriage.
this includes providing a adequate stabilizing environment to care protect, love and provide mental and psychological support. Failure to do so the individual will be charged as a child predator, this includes anyone like pimps, who will try to exploit the child. Or one night stands....this will prevent those who only want sex with a child not a relationship.. providing they are over 10 years older..
While the parents are not required to be informed, the individual and child must be in regular contact with a councilor within 1 week of contact, who will monitor the relationship to make sure the child is in good health and consenting throughout...if the councilor decides the relationship is not or no longer healthy, the individual is warned to end the relationship, if they do not, they are charged as a child predator...
If the relationship is not reported to a councilor, it is not a legal relationship and they will be prosecuted as a child predator.
Once married, the individual cannot divorce the child for any reason until she’s 21. Until then they must provide all health care and support for her and any children.. failure to do so, they will be prosecuted for failure to provide support .
All divorce laws apply to wealth and property..