A while ago I connected with a much younger guy on a fun level, he was obviously into older women. So we agreed on just having fun, he had a girlfriend and was just basically looking to have fun with me, which I understood. Later on I met a guy on a dating site and we got on very well and it seemed like he was really into me and ready to meet, etc. So I decided to end things with this younger guy and informed him about my decision. Instead I recently discovered that this guy on SW,were very upset about it, saying I mislead him and he wasted his time and energy on me😲
Can anyone explain to me where I misread the agreement between us, cause I dont understand what he is on about???

Unfortunately this is just a playing field for young and old. I could ask you why you not searching on a dating site instead of here, but from experience it's the same everywhere. If you lucky you might find someone here that really cares, but at the end of the day all paths on here leads to only one thing...I don't have to tell you what that is🤷

I've been single close to 8 yrs but happy to be single. I'm 57 btw. No longer interested in relationships as I've been there done that and have zero interest in marriage.

Too much sarcasm and fun going on here. Yes this website was primarily constructed with the intent to bring people together but not necessarily as a springboard for dating and is clearly not a dating website. Dating websites are constructed from the beginning directed to the dating market with excellent dating tools. You may want to try PlentyOfFat or OKStupid. You could find many dates there, considering your masterful control of the English language. There, I've provided the distinction and with a bit humor as well. Hope this helped you! 👫

There are men who are quite serious, and there are men who are not serious at all.

I would say the vast majority are not interested in a woman who says, “I’m looking for a lifetime commitment,” in the first conversation.

You can look, and it’s not impossible, but it’s unlikely.

If you meet someone and the chat is fun (by whatever standards), they might return. Maybe they’ll email, maybe they’ll call.

In the meantime, how would you know if they’re scamming you? Or if they’re a would-be killer?
It is - and should be - a slow process.

Everyone have their own desires some for emotional support others for whatever...so choose what you want ignore what you don't want n move on..nobody is getting married here or divorced .

It takes awhile to cut through the red tape to find the right person. Many comfortable chats to get things going. You will find it, good luck

Ok Steve 🤔

I don’t get the feeling this site is a dating site to meet people

I hope love still exists.Sometimes I wonder

I'm not even looking to date... I'm fried after the last 5 years.

Then let's get this out of the way right now: I'm just here for fun. Not looking for anything long-term.

People don't take DMs seriously on here. Remember that.

Why not invest the rest of your life with me instead of spending it ?

Perhaps you're on the wrong site.

What should a guy want on here? This isn't a dating site.

This isn’t a dating site. So yeah, if that’s what you’re looking for here, expect to be disappointed.

This is the mental torment site not the love forever site but anything can happen i guess 😏

Why would you think this is a dating app.

I don’t dm anyone. An observation. No one knows where anyone is located. If that was available it perhaps could make the possibility of real relationships being formed more practical,