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3timesalady

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💔 My Heart Has Reached Its Limit

I🌹 think this might be my last post… at least for a while. There comes a time when your soul just can’t take any more disappointment — when you realize you’ve been holding on to people who were never really holding on to you. To you — the man who... See More »

💔THE ILLUSION OF A RESCUER💔

💔There’s a kind of pain that doesn’t just break your heart, it breaks your trust in the good you thought you finally found. Once again, I recently thought I’d met someone here who saw through my pain and cared deeply. He was gentle, comforting,... See More »

🌹THE OPPOSITE OF UNHAPPINESS 🌹

🌹The opposite of unhappiness isn’t loud joy or endless laughter. It’s peace — quiet, steady, and real. It’s waking up and realizing the heaviness in your chest is gone. It’s not that everything is perfect; it’s that you no longer need it to be.... See More »

🖤THE TRUE MEANING OF UNHAPPINESS 🖤

It is a hollowing, a kind of inner implosion where everything collapses inward. It isn’t sadness in the simple sense of crying or mourning; it’s a black, suffocating void where even tears dry up because they feel pointless. It’s waking up and... See More »

💔 Love should never leave bruises, only peace.💔

💔Today, I took one of the hardest steps of my life. I went to court to apply for a protection order against my husband. It wasn’t an act of anger, but of survival. After years of emotional abuse and last night that turned violent, I finally... See More »

🙆This is what I have to deal with 🙆

Sammy007 1 min ago Inside u know..how ur husband treats u...how suffering organism u r.. that why u... that's why he done the best thing... ALL THIS BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANTED TO SHARE MY PICS

🌹You Don’t Break Me, You Only Prove Me Right🌹

🌹I don’t know if I belong here anymore. There’s so much fakeness, people feeding off the sadness of others, and words thrown around that hurt more than they heal — all while claiming to care. Some say this is not a dating site, but so many approach... See More »

🌹MY OWN WORST ENEMY🌹

🌹I’m so pissed at myself! Pissed for being so weak, for letting people sweet-talk me into believing they cared, only to be left shattered again. I hate that I ignored the signs, that I handed out my trust like it was nothing, and then sat here... See More »

🌹HAPPINESS IS JUST A MYTH 🌹

🌹 For so many years, I believed happiness was something I could hold onto in my marriage. I thought if I gave enough, sacrificed enough, endured enough, then eventually we’d reach that place where love felt safe and complete. But what Im founding is... See More »

🌹 My Yourney Still Unfolding 🌹

🌹 In my last posts, I shared about the pain of giving, sacrificing, and hoping for love that never comes—while burying my own needs for the sake of family, faith, and survival. The truth is, my search for someone to “rescue” me has often ended in... See More »

💔 The Ache I Can't Excape 💔

💔Today was my birthday. A day that should have felt like celebration ended with me lying in bed, feeling like my heart had shattered into pieces. The ache inside me is so heavy it almost feels physical—like I’m carrying a weight I can’t put down.... See More »

🌹🌹The Kind of Love That Hurts to Hope For🌹

🌹Sometimes I wonder if real love even exists, the kind that makes your heart ache, not from pain, but from being so full, so alive, so deeply connected that it feels like home. That’s the love I long for. Not just surface affection or casual... See More »

South Africa, My country, My home❤

Thank you to everyone who shared their thoughts. The truth is, South Africa is complicated. Crime is real and touches every community. We live with gates, alarms, private security, and the constant awareness that danger exists. Corruption and failing... See More »

When Motherhood Steals My Womanhood

🌹Being a mother has been the greatest blessing—and the greatest conflict of my life. For years, my identity was wrapped up in my children. I gave everything, sacrificed endlessly, and poured myself into motherhood. But somewhere along the way, I... See More »

“South Africa is not perfect, but it’s not the nightmare some make it out to be. Millions of us live, love, and thrive here.”

South Africa, like many countries, has its challenges — yes, crime is a reality here and some areas are riskier than others. But sweeping statements like “it’s not safe at all” don’t reflect how millions of people actually live. Every day we go to... See More »

🌹 A Real Talk For Women 🌹

Sometimes the heart falls faster than the mind can think. Many women fall for men online — sweet words, late-night chats, promises that sound like forever. But behind the screen, you don’t always know the truth. Not every man who says “I love you”... See More »