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Do guys hate incels as much as I hate feminazis?

Two groups of people who drive the two genders apart because they are fundamentally broken individuals.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
What bothers me about incels, at least as I see them portrayed when I read about them, is their misogynist hatred toward women and, in some cases, the violence that results.
blindbob · 41-45
@Morvoren i've yet to see feminazis orchestrate a mass shooting. for the most part, they are harmless and can be ignored.
Morvoren · F
@blindbob they are physically abusive, only mentally abusive. I’ve personally experienced it and had to take it to an employment tribunal
blindbob · 41-45
@Morvoren they said mean things to you?
BlueVeins · 22-25
I hate them a lot. To be honest, I feel like I have deep understanding for both the wokescolds and the incels (not that they're equivalent); both are very brain wormy reactions to the ways in which society has failed them. Feminazis are a reaction to institutional sexism and -- keep it real -- the generally bad influence that testosterone has on men's behavior. Incels are a product of alienation under capitalism, car-centric development, and the education system's failure to properly socialize men.

And I hate them both in particular because of the things they've stigmatized through their horrible ideologies and bad behavior. Wokescolds have largely stigmatized correct and assertive criticism of the dominant social order, while incels have worsened the stigmatization of male loneliness. At this rate, they'll succeed in stigmatizing female loneliness too in due time. God, I really hate all these people.
I had to look up the word incel, and was surprised to discover it refers to a young man who is [b]in[/b]voluntarily [b]cel[/b]ibate. I hope the word doesn't become a normalised part of English vocab.

I guess incel implies that the youth is somehow unattractive in his mannerisms, behaviour, ways of socialising or perhaps physically. Perhaps he's a poor conversationalist.
There seems to be a suggestion that he is heterosexually attracted but actually hates women as people.
He would be his own worst enemy because his attitude would repel women and thus keep him in that state of constant frustration.

People who are heterosexually oriented but hate the opposite sex as people
were usually treated very badly by their parent or primary carer of the opposite sex.
The younger they were and the longer the neglect or abuse lasted, the more severe the problem.

A man who loves women as whole individuals (not just for sex) tends to feel appalled by men who abuse women, seeing them as giving men in general a bad name. I think hate would be too strong a word, unless the man has had some specific negative experience of knowing a woman who has been the victim of an incel.
Lostpoet · M
i thought an incel was a terrorist community. Lol

I didn't know it was just guys trying to come up with reasons why they can't find a girl.
Elessar · 26-30, M
@Lostpoet Incel[c=804600][b]l[/b][/c]*
Elessar · 26-30, M
And wait until they find each other and start procreating
Elessar · 26-30, M
@Morvoren Sorry 😬
Morvoren · F
@Morvoren Actually it’s okay. When you think about it - it’s impossible for these two groups who hate each other to procreate, even if they found a willing person. The hate is too rich.
Elessar · 26-30, M
@Morvoren Ehhh I wouldn't bet my money on it. What if it goes «Men are pigs, but these other men that hate the sl_ts are actually fine» (and viceversa)?
TrashCat · M
Incels are fucking losers with poor social skills
blindbob · 41-45
a feminazi refuses to shave her pits and an incel shoots up a sorority house because no one volunteered to sleep with him. yeah, i don't think it compares. clearly the feminazis are leading to our demise.
They’re like unicorns..
rare to spot, they’re home playing call of duty
deadteddy · 26-30, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Please, my brother is home playing call of duty , stop offending my family 🥲, my bro is gorgeous
Eternity · 26-30, M
Ive always wondered what would happen if you locked a feminazi and an incel in a bank vault together for 24 hours
blindbob · 41-45
@Eternity honestly? he would probably rape and strangle her to death. you wouldn't even have to lock them up together for that to happen.
Eternity · 26-30, M
@blindbob incels are typically pretty weak though. Without a weapon he probably couldn't beat the feminazi in a fight, as feminazis tend to be rather hefty...
blindbob · 41-45
@Eternity You are right about weapons, but all jokes aside, at the end of the day, on average men are physically stronger than women.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
What's interesting is that incels often come from the manosphere community which is kind of a cluster of pick up artists, seduction, red pill and dating. These groups often decree feminism as everything to blame for their own failures. They're also more traditional.

You'd actually have a lot more in common with the incel community a lot more than you think and along the way of generalizing feminists, have probably befriended an incel without even knowing.

https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308
Morvoren · F
@SatanBurger I’m not against feminists, in school I was inspired by he women who fought and in some case me dyed for the right to vote, equal rights and equal pay.

Then later in life I was plagued by the “feminists” who called me a whore or a slave to men for dyeing my hair and wearing makeup, or saying that as a hetro CIS woman I was as bad as a white supremacist, or who told me that my struggle with infertility was because I enjoyed sex with men to frequently.

I used to eat my lunch in my car so I wouldn’t be a target for these people.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@Morvoren I usually hear them talking about cis people, it's usually in the context of a cis straight person making homophobic remarks. Sorry if that was your experience though, I don't think you're a slave for dyeing your hair or wearing make up. I think those are extremists.
sciguy18 · M
Those radical incels give the rest of us a bad name. I am involuntarily celibate, but I do not hate women; nor do I blame them for my situation.
Hate is a heavy word that rarely fits my emotions but they do make me sad.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Morvoren So what do you think of Tenoch Huerta & Would You Do Him
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I dislike people who identify as incels. I also do not believe they are actually involuntarily celibate. They are voluntarily choosing to pursue people whose standards and preferences they do not meet and being rejected. If they broadened their potential partner range the same way they expect the women they rage against to do, they would likely find plenty of willing partners themselves.

Therefore I find their ignorance and rage to be irrational and harmful.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
I think they are the ultimate losers.
The very greatest truth, that.
I could answer the question, but I don’t want to imply it’s ok to hate people who have different views from me. I think I should do less hating and more minding of my own business.
I agree 😞
Are incels guys with pink hair? Yes im not impressed with guys that hate themselves for being males.
BlueVeins · 22-25
@checkoutanytime No, incels are the 4chan boys who feel mad at all women bc they can't get laid.
Human1000 · M
I hate incels and never had issues with feminazis.
DDonde · 31-35, M
I don't like misogynists.
And the LbGtQiAp.
tenente · 100+, M
yep, hate incels...i really don't understand how someone devolves into an incel - it's disgusting....
empanadas · 31-35, M
Yeah but I feel bad for them tbh.
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