An “old” friend reached out yesterday and I rejected her.

That's a tough one, but you did the right thing. The last thing you need is to reopen old wounds at a time when you're trying to be calm and centered and focusing on what's important.

Yep. Good for you.
Look after yourself - don’t let toxic people in. That’s my advice for what it’s worth.

Returning back to my island I rejected two older friends of mine too, it felt awkward but also, peace 🌸 good job! self respect, time is valuable!

The way it works with me is that if someone hurt me in the past then I'll let them in again to an extent but they'll never be able to do it again. It's a one time deal for me. Even more so now that I hardly feel shit anymore in terms of romance. Once someone comes back they immediately provide me with closure, because they have sought me out. I win, the end 😏

I get it. This is more about closure for them.. You arent in the forgiveness business at this time..😷

Good for you!

Good for you

Good for you 😌

What did she do?

cant let people like that back in....... they already did enough damage already.

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