An “old” friend reached out yesterday and I rejected her.

She was my best friend and hurt me in a spectacular way. It literally took me years and probably thousands of dollars in therapy to get over it.

And I shut her down. It’s too late. Sorry.

I am a little bit proud of this.

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HoeBag · 51-55, F

What did she do?

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

@HoeBag It is a long story lol.

HoeBag · 51-55, F

@SwampFlower Yeh in any case - probably best that you didn't let her in. Here is the thing -

If someone was a pain in the 4ss back then, nothing will change. Oh yeah sure they will ACT nice when we have not seen them in a while but then their true colors soon come back out, they soon go back to thinking they can act any ol which way.

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

@HoeBag I think she heard of my situation and now wants to absolve herself from any guilt. I think that she should feel all of that guilt, personally.

HoeBag · 51-55, F

@SwampFlower She would probably apologize but then try to act like the situation was somehow your fault.

BlueVeins · 26-30

@SwampFlower bojack moment