An “old” friend reached out yesterday and I rejected her.

She was my best friend and hurt me in a spectacular way. It literally took me years and probably thousands of dollars in therapy to get over it.

And I shut her down. It’s too late. Sorry.

I am a little bit proud of this.

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The way it works with me is that if someone hurt me in the past then I'll let them in again to an extent but they'll never be able to do it again. It's a one time deal for me. Even more so now that I hardly feel shit anymore in terms of romance. Once someone comes back they immediately provide me with closure, because they have sought me out. I win, the end 😏