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I feel its time to take a break from SW

I dont know how to explain it but SW isnt the site it once was. There just isnt the interaction like it used to be. I sometimes wonder if thats the reason so many of the original crew have left.

When SW came along it was billed as the new EP. But it isnt. EP was a great site to use and people were much kinder and sympathetic.

So maybe a break is whats needed. Come back refreshed and revitalised. That might work.
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I feel like a digital nomad because all my life I've jumped from one closed down site to another. It started with a bunch of niche iPhone ones as a child in like 2006, then Ask.com, then EP, now here. I miss a lot of people I've met over the years. One in particular, I would love to check on today. I hope she's okay.

I hope you're okay, too.
FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M
EP was so awesome, I've actually developed lifelong friendships with about 8 people from there. SW was ok at the begining, but the connection is lacking. I've taken a good break from it, and only check in once or twice a month now. Real life is what's important and taking care of yourself mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually is a vital thing. I wish you well
jehova · 31-35, M
@FORMERLYbatovn you will always be welcome back. You do you?
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, M
I’ve tried that and you just have to accept that the times are changing and so are the (contestants) 💁🏼‍♂🤦🏼‍♂.
Still many good people around. Just have to dig a little deeper for them and use the block button more, thats what it’s for, to enhance your experience 😀
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
I don't know what the other site was, and I don't know who the original crew was, but I started on here to thank someone who was on the site. I met a few people in person, and I still talk to many of them over the past few years, not many years. Anything is always what you make it to be.
ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
Not sure whats wrong with the site that people announce they have to take a break from it. What is so bad and toxic about this site when it just mainly about questions and writingg your own experiences. Unless your pming and getting yourself in a situation im not sure why people get upset.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
I know how you feel. I came here after Yahoo Answers went downhill (even before it closed), and I can't seem to foster the same sort of community from here as I did on Yahoo Answers. Yahoo Answers was just...built differently, at least for me. There may be a combination of nostalgia and bias at play, but yeah. That's how I feel.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
Correct SW is no EP. While it has some of the same members who migrated it's definitely not the same neighborhood. The feed doesn't help with connections and so called forum groups and algorithm settings are a joke. They had the idea to grab users but the organization and execution is a disaster.
It's easy to understand any previous EP user losing interest.
Punches · 46-50, F
@Gibbon I was barely on EP before it closed.
I know with SW, it is run more and more like a school outing.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Punches That's somewhat true and the kids aren't in organized groups. With EP it was easy to treat your group of friends as a circle and not seek them out 1 by 1. Putting them as a priority in the feed algorithm filter does damn little to bring them forward here. I don't know what the feed was like before the changes I see mentioned but it's obvious according to people here during the change they made things worse not better.
ArtieKat · M
I liked EP and made some good connections there - but it's a long time ago now, and I suspect that the lives of many former members changed. The world has changed in the near 10 years since EP closed - not necessarily for the better.
AllycatAD · 26-30
If/when I leave, it won't announce it. publicly

I'll tell a few friends via DM though and offer my email how to reach, me.
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, M
@AllycatAD That’s the way I’ve always done it 👍
supersnipe · 61-69, M
I've done that in the past. I've gone away for a few weeks, but I'm still here. However...It doesn't do to spend too much time just scrolling here or anywhere else. There is an 'opportunity cost' - you could be doing something else.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
It isn't SW that's changed it's our culture. There is a lot of unrest now, fear, hate uncertainty that weren't there in the days of EP. The whole western world is going through a tough time.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
I keep thinking this too, I’ve taken alot of breaks from here in the past. But there are a few people that I don’t want to leave.
Punches · 46-50, F
Yeah, even the cliquesters seem to be leaving lately.

Too many algorithms and what not in place. It's like even the people we interact with the most do not show up in our feeds.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
many feel the need to leave and come back.

if you leave hope you return too.

either way - ish you the best.
jehova · 31-35, M
It like everything else its what you put into it. Ask questions block no one or only when necessary. provide support advice and understanding the rest is automatic.
Didn’t I see you said you came back recently after a few years? Why do you think it’ll be different again after another break.
TeenWonder · F
Every time I come in here I get swarmed so I quietly disappear for a while.
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
I completely agree with you. I am not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be. SW has definitely gone way down hill. ☹
Lilnonames · F
@Musicman the algorithm killed it
I agree people talk for a day and then stop
hunkalove · 70-79, M
This is not a nice place.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
So, you were, what, 13 years old when you were on EP? 🤔
exchrist · 31-35
Please answer my poll first?! Pretty please?
jehova · 31-35, M
Vote on exchrist's poll b4 you go. Please.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
I agree 100 percent, things here are not like they used to be. The change to the feed really messed things up among other things..
A lot of people do that.
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Rob04 · 18-21, M
Lilnonames · F
It's the algorithm that ruined S W

 
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