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I thought I did. lol I thought it would be a continuation of my experience on EP. Of course it wasn’t. I never could quite place why. Sort of like a spell was broken and nothing could replace it. And then with time I learned and changed and so did everyone else. Society in general cracked and hate flowed and it became less and less what pleasure it managed in the beginning. I think a lot of the discomfort comes from the fact that you can feel a pull regardless. There are just enough good people and good moments to bring addictive properties to it. Like a gambler who can’t let go of the idea that THIS hand will be a winner. And there’s an ease and escapism to it that feels malignant. How much time have I wasted here when I should have been feeding my soul with something more meaningful? But meaningful usually requires a bit more effort. I understand why people get fed up. I understand why people leave. We have to live our priorities. I still miss the magic, but I get why it’s gone. I take comfort in the names I still see, the representation of souls I’ve been glad to know of. When they go, I wish them well. Maybe someday I’ll go too, but for now, I can drop pieces of myself here that belong nowhere else. I can read questions like this that make me look and think and allow me to glimpse other perspectives. I still find value in those things. I just reach for balance and get a little better all the time. 🙂
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@JustNik I know there are those that have left and I miss, and some that are still here that I am no longer in touch with, but miss when we did converse on all topics of conversation
I do wonder if I am thought of at all, what impression I left with people
Do you ever think of that?
I do wonder if I am thought of at all, what impression I left with people
Do you ever think of that?
JustNik · 51-55, F
@Ghostinthemachine Occasionally. Life is big with lots of things demanding attention, but we see all the time these posts out of the blue of one person missing another who has floated to the surface of their thoughts. It feels logical in a way that we are indeed thought of (if you can take comfort in that as I do), and while none of us leaves a universally good impression (regardless of our intentions since oil and water do both exist), I think you skew heavily toward the positive because you wish to, because you’re open and curious and that’s the one thing that shakes up the bottle of oil and water and makes it look like pretty bubbles. 😂
@JustNik Funny, along the lines of your metaphor, I made a salad dressing the other night, olive oil and red wine vinegar, and as I mixed the two together (with a touch of sugar) I was fascinated by how they refused to completely mix together, such stubborn liquids.
Like some people.
Like some people.
I’m not a fan of this place, but there’s good people on here. Just one person nice to me on here is more than I’ll see irl. I delete a lot and in a years time I will definitely be on here much less if at all. I’m just stuck in an incredibly boring transition in life.
@Ghostinthemachine I don’t meet anyone. I share brief, meaningful exchanges with people when I’m out. It feels good to be kind. But otherwise I’m with my son. If he’s at his dad’s then I go out into nature to find quiet and recharge.
I think finding a good groove would be nice. I’m just not in that position. I have a lot of work to do. And it’s boring and sad, yet I’m lucky because once I’m done I can get to a better place. Just so much work and I’m tired.
I think finding a good groove would be nice. I’m just not in that position. I have a lot of work to do. And it’s boring and sad, yet I’m lucky because once I’m done I can get to a better place. Just so much work and I’m tired.
Mardrae · F
@BrokenAbyss I am in the same spot myself.
@BrokenAbyss it’s very important to insure you make time for yourself, to do things you enjoy and make you happy, whether that is with other people or alone. Work is important, but only in that it allows us to do what we want. Life goes by pretty quickly, so you have to a make time to smell the flowers once in awhile
We all first buy a product to use it.
It has been a fusion. I don't feel accounts get deleted here.
Each life has an expiry date including my logging in-out sessions.
It has been a fusion. I don't feel accounts get deleted here.
Each life has an expiry date including my logging in-out sessions.
@Lyfis2live I only log in here to make you smile, then I log off
@Ghostinthemachine Nice of You. Blessings.
@Lyfis2live any time
bookerdana · M
D- I expected itt to actually be the new EP not filters that separate us and so many other useless features...and the staff making memes about us😠
bookerdana · M
@Ghostinthemachine i'm such a badass🤤
@bookerdana Yes, you are!
Better than being a dumbass
Better than being a dumbass
bookerdana · M
@Ghostinthemachine one hopes
SW-User
I didnt really know what to expect when i joined this site, but, i met a bestie on here that helped me change for the better. She helped me deal and realize my anger was misplaced and i learned to accept myself!! 😀 i wouldnt change anything because it brought this wonderful person into my life!!
@SW-User that’s awesome and wonderful to have met and made a friend like that, on SW of all places!
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@Ghostinthemachine SW isnt all that bad in some ways....there are good people here!! Just gotta meet the right ones. The ones that will be by your side no matter what!! 😁
@SW-User yes, or at least one click away 😁
I had zero clue what this place was when someone invited me to join
It has been..interesting lol but I've been here almost a year
Made a couple decent friends. And then there is the not so great experiences. But the cool people make up for it
It has been..interesting lol but I've been here almost a year
Made a couple decent friends. And then there is the not so great experiences. But the cool people make up for it
SmoothKnight · 51-55, M
@Bexsy
The few good friends I've made here are really the only reason I stay. This place is permeated with trolls and morons.
The few good friends I've made here are really the only reason I stay. This place is permeated with trolls and morons.
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CestManan · 46-50, F
I just came here because Is It Normal was having technical difficulties.
I never "expected" anything here.
I have never deleted my account. When people leave a forum they usually do not announce it except in rare cases. They just kind of... quit showing up. If they say they are leaving because someone hurt their feelings, you can pretty much bet they will be back.
And about expectations - A former member of this place said that people are not going to find what they seek here because this is merely online.
I never "expected" anything here.
I have never deleted my account. When people leave a forum they usually do not announce it except in rare cases. They just kind of... quit showing up. If they say they are leaving because someone hurt their feelings, you can pretty much bet they will be back.
And about expectations - A former member of this place said that people are not going to find what they seek here because this is merely online.
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CestManan · 46-50, F
@Ghostinthemachine Sometimes someone blunders and it is the talk of the town.
@CestManan I’m going to be doubly careful about blundering my way into social media oblivion
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I planned to be anonymous and just perv around but that didn't last long. It's no fun for a girl in her 20s when 90% of all respondents are men in their 50s and 60s. 🤷♀️
So I concluded I needed to change my ways how to use this site because my original plan was useless.
So I concluded I needed to change my ways how to use this site because my original plan was useless.
@CrazyMusicLover I'm not sure what to do with such blatant honesty 😳
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Ghostinthemachine Try it sometimes. It feels so good. 😆 I mean, blatant honesty.
@CrazyMusicLover I am always that way...minus the blatancy 😁
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It was an extension of EP for me. It wasn't quite what EP was, but I adjusted and settled into it as it was for a while. It was what I needed or thought I needed for a while.
I won't be here a year from now.
I won't be here a year from now.
@SW-User It is what it is, and often thats what you make it.
I'll look for your profile a year from now 😁
I'll look for your profile a year from now 😁
valobasa4ever · F
Though I'm very irregular , but i was expecting very booze . 😉 😶 🤭 🍾
valobasa4ever · F
What's the consultation fee ? ;-) @Ghostinthemachine
@valobasa4ever oh, you should know opinions and advice is always free here.
I only ask that if you follow mine, please keep a few feet back from me for a few days...
I only ask that if you follow mine, please keep a few feet back from me for a few days...
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Cheers 🍻 @valobasa4ever
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I joined here shortly after EP was shut down.
People were less friendly and less interested in small talk but pretends to be lonely in posts.
I quit shortly.
Deleted my account twice because the site gave me the feeling of being alone in a crowd.
Right now I decided not to initiate contact with anyone.
So I guess I'll stay for now.
People were less friendly and less interested in small talk but pretends to be lonely in posts.
I quit shortly.
Deleted my account twice because the site gave me the feeling of being alone in a crowd.
Right now I decided not to initiate contact with anyone.
So I guess I'll stay for now.
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@Ghostinthemachine I guess so
@SW-User I will post stuff, but not really reaching out to anyone. Mostly observing
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@Ghostinthemachine same here.
LadyGrace · 70-79
There were no surprises.
@LadyGrace when I first joined, I had plenty of surprises!
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I was looking for the perfect pancake recipe. Still looking.
@hunkalove did you check in the "I love to cook but I'm not a great cook" group?
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
This place has its charms. Ill never leave probably.
@NeuroticByNature when this place eventually shuts down, because all good things must come to and end, they’ll have to drag you out the front exit kicking and screaming
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine probably
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I kind of knew what it would be like because I was on EP for a short time until it closed down but I didn’t realize it would be on a much different level than what I expected. I have never deleted my account but I do think about doing it at least once a week but then I would have zero drama in my life if I did
@Jenny1234 you’re the opposite of me, I want less drama in my life, not more
Which means I should probably delete🤔
Which means I should probably delete🤔
SW-User
I've met some very dear friends, involved myself with some contentious conversations, had some lighthearted conversation, and been trolled. I think that's par for the course?
@SW-User I’m sure you are much better off for not experiencing everything this site has to offer
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@Ghostinthemachine Well again.. I think I have experienced much of it.. May I leave with you from something from Prince.... I think it represents it well. :)
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@SW-User what a mix!
What an entrance!
And all while chewing gum!
What an entrance!
And all while chewing gum!
akindheart · 61-69, F
i am not on here like i was on EP but i have some friends i always touch base with and hope to always do so. some are addicts, some are troublemakers and some are just pervs.
@akindheart there weren’t any on EP?
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Ghostinthemachine oh yes. really crazy people. i had more patient back then.
@akindheart patience is thin and in short supply here. The block button is a lot of peoples best friend it seems
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I didn't really have expectations. I look at it as pretty much anywhere else online. I have never deleted and I use this account only. If I don't want to be here I'm not.
Sure I think there could be improvements. Will I be here a year from now? No idea:)
Sure I think there could be improvements. Will I be here a year from now? No idea:)
@ravenwind43 I've never used another site like this one, so I have no frame of reference as to what else is out there...except maybe the truth
*cue X-Files music
*cue X-Files music
SmoothKnight · 51-55, M
I had an idea what it would be like; I was on EP for years, so I'm pretty realistic.
@SmoothKnight are there many from EP on SW?
SmoothKnight · 51-55, M
@SmoothKnight I’d be curious to know, and who’s been on the longest
Roundandroundwego · 61-69
Of course. My school, family, church and nation speak with the same voice as SW. It's supposed to gaslight and isolate non fascists.
@Roundandroundwego for what purpose?
Roundandroundwego · 61-69
@Ghostinthemachine good question. The war on nature goes hand in hand with colonizing and Europe gave us its worst examples. How long have we been at war against it?
@Roundandroundwego it’s a war that can’t be won
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
Nah. It kinda exceeded it
Thought the place might have been dead considering the beginnings but it's got a lil life to it
Thought the place might have been dead considering the beginnings but it's got a lil life to it
@Iwantyourhotwife reports of its pending demise are a tad premature
TheFragile · 46-50, M
Yes. I came here to reconnect with someone I met a long time ago.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Exceeded expectations by far. This is the only social media site where I feel at home.
@ninalanyon Thats good to hear someone having a positive experience here ☺️
I am still not sure what I am doing here
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Seems fine to me
@HoraceGreenley what am I looking at?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Yes. I expected it to be EP lite and that’s pretty much what it is
FurryFace · 61-69, M
yes i knew it and i'm not let down
SW-User
I’ve blocked a few yeah,lol the Karen’s and the c()nty clowns .. all blocked 👌🏻
@SW-User I see you're a fan of alliteration 😁
Bang5luts · M
Yup.. 😆
@Bang5luts ditto
SW-User
A friend told me this was a branch of the Western Australian tourist Wild Life Animal picture taking club.
@SW-User and they weren’t far off in that description, just little more global 🌍
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You can tell when you have been blocked, the accident still shows the name out the picture is blurred out like this.
But pretend the name is there 🤣
I know I am blocked a lot, oh well 🤷🏼♀️
But pretend the name is there 🤣
I know I am blocked a lot, oh well 🤷🏼♀️
@iamonfire696 and some of them do! 😆
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine yes and that’s their problem 🤣
@iamonfire696 I don’t wanna know 🙈
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@SW-User As the old saying goes...you can never go home again.
But you can build a new one
But you can build a new one
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