Curiosity13 · 51-55, M
Someone who thinks their time is more important
People forget that unless the conversation is real important, sometimes people do have to put it on pause unannounced when life gets in the way.
I think most people just understand that it is the nature of text messages. SOMEtimes people will end the chat formally if they have to do something but not usually. It should not be expected.
When someone has a romantic interest though, THAT is when they get antsy if someone takes too long to respond or doesn't announce why they have to do silly things like feed their baby or escape a burning building.
I think most people just understand that it is the nature of text messages. SOMEtimes people will end the chat formally if they have to do something but not usually. It should not be expected.
When someone has a romantic interest though, THAT is when they get antsy if someone takes too long to respond or doesn't announce why they have to do silly things like feed their baby or escape a burning building.
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MasterLee · 56-60, M
Very few on here have manners. If you leave it is polite to say so. But in this text world no one gives any respect.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Some people. This is nor real life I understand people here have many other much more important things to do in the real world
Peril · F
@JaggedLittlePill it's a very sad situation when people's only social interaction is on the net. Real life (in the world I live in) is very different, thankfully. But whether or not this is "real life" is a just a question of semantics really but 5 years ago it wouldnt have been, almost nobody would have challenged the statement like you did, which shows how profoundly the world is changing.
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MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
one of the best things on SW is that you can leave whenever you have too and just restart the convo when you come back. That person is way to sensitive and shouldn't be here.

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@MrGoodbar 100%!! well said👏🏼
Sounds like my mom 😅
I need to respond ASAP as if everything is an emergency.
I need to respond ASAP as if everything is an emergency.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
He did have a bit of a over reaction. But I kind of get his point. Kind of hard to talk with someone if they keep getting off of the site without saying anything. Not that hard to say I'll be right back I need to let the dog out and get a bottle for my child.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@SW-User well if your child is screaming and u need to take a shower or go to the bathroom. Are u going to wait for him to stop or just go

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@smileylovesgaming I’m gonna tend to my child and make sure my child is good before I take a shower or go to the bathroom or anything..🤦🏽♀️ regardless, my kid comes before anyone else, especially someone I just met 30 minutes ago🤣
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@SW-User would you leave your boyfriend or husband in mid conversation to go check on your child or finish the conversation first.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
Unfortunately, there are people in this world that have no life outside the internet. If I am chatting with someone and they don't respond back after 5 minutes, it probably means they have important offline things to do.
NewRaven · 51-55, F
I’ve had this happen a lot. I even put a comment to tell people messaging me that there may be delays in response time lol

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@NewRaven I’ve had it happen a few times but they were nice about it and just like “hey you ok? Why’d you log off” or whatever, that’s kinda annoying but at least they’re being nice and respectful UNLIKE THIS LADY. so rude for no reason😂😂
Carissimi · F
I suppose if one leaves in the middle of a conversation, it is rude. You could say BRB, or I have to go. If it’s a chat, it’s rude. If it’s messages, then that’s different. Depends what it is.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I tried the impatient approach once. For some stupid reason I thought that would show how much I wanted to talk to her and that she'd appreciate that. Needless to say, she blocked me.

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@Matt85 lmao. But like my son will scream his head off if I don’t make him a bottle right when he wants it🤣 so no way am I gonna be like “hey I gotta go make my baby a bottle, chat later” NOPE, sue me for just logging off instead so I don’t gotta listen to screaming🤣 I just met you lady, seriously chill lol
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Yeah, I appreciate that, wasn't trying to say you were wrong.

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@Matt85 I didn’t take it that way😊
revenant · F
hmmm you lacked manners too

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@revenant actually, I would not mind… it happens quite a bit on here actually, they come back eventually and we talk whenever they’re back online. I guess I am just MATURE that way!!
I am convinced that this is your other account & you are in fact the same person that blocked me 😩
I am convinced that this is your other account & you are in fact the same person that blocked me 😩
revenant · F
@SW-User oh you MATURE one 😊 What would be my other account ?☺️ Please can you tell the name also oh Mature One 🙏
revenant · F
@SW-User the Mature One should be careful before spreading crap like that you know

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They own you now
Thats how it works on here
Didn't you know ?
Thats how it works on here
Didn't you know ?
Ontheroad · M
Bad hair day maybe? Each of us have different expectations and yours and their are at different ends of the scale. No biggie, no harm, no foul.
If I sent a message I expect a reply when the reply comes and if we happen to be shooting replies back and forth for a few minutes, I'm cool if an unannounced pause happens... I just carry on and do whatever. I go annoy someone else or make a cup of coffee, or fold the laundry... wait, not that!
What I'm saying is don't sweat the small stuff and it's all small stuff. They had issues with how you responded, oh well, have a nice day.
If I sent a message I expect a reply when the reply comes and if we happen to be shooting replies back and forth for a few minutes, I'm cool if an unannounced pause happens... I just carry on and do whatever. I go annoy someone else or make a cup of coffee, or fold the laundry... wait, not that!
What I'm saying is don't sweat the small stuff and it's all small stuff. They had issues with how you responded, oh well, have a nice day.
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
🤔

maybe he's not interested in you anymore. he doesn't want to explain why and uses an excuse to stop communicating.
look in the previous messages to see what you said that might have made you less valuable in his eyes.
look in the previous messages to see what you said that might have made you less valuable in his eyes.
meJess · F
Toddlers expect your full attention and validation for everything they do. You can’t leave them unattended and must expect that sometimes they will have tantrums.

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That’s why I don’t chat here. Could do without this kind of drama.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I have to leave multiple times a day🤷♂️

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@Virgo79 right same!! Imagine typing out “have to go” to every person you are talking to at that moment. Did this person really expect me to tell the like 7 people I was communicating with that I had to go, meanwhile my baby was screaming his head off because he wanted a bottle😂 sorry son I gotta tell my online friend that I JUST MET that I’ll talk to her later before I can feed ya🤷🏽♀️
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@SW-User sometimes i dont have time to do it, if it's a problem i don't, well we just don't click🙂
You know, it's text🤷♂️
You know, it's text🤷♂️

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I bet most of us women can guess his name. Does it start with a C?

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@SW-User no actually🤣
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
has this person never texted before?
TexChik · F
For them , SW is their life because they have failed at real world interactions . Block and forget before it gets weird . 😂
Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M
I guess some people cant appreciate a life outside of SW :(

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It’s like that here
plasticpants02 · 70-79, M
You hurt their little feelings,, so sad.
BeefySenpie · M
Free comedy 😆
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
They did you a favor not wasting one of your blocks.
Ducky · 31-35, F
That passive-aggressiveness at the end, lmfao!

SW-User
I hate this kind of thing, it's usually always men that do it from my experience. Don't let it upset you.
Block them you owe them nothin
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Dodged a bullet there. 😇

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Oh good gawd….. WTAF!!!

SW-User
I think this person just got pissed off because he realised that you're a mother, and therefore not in the mood for dirty talk or unsolicited nudes.
SpaceJesus · 41-45
Ooh someone is needy! I don't care for people like that
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Passive aggressive psychopaths. Basically they take everything as a rejection and then go into incel mode.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
I met someone on here that would say crazy shit to me, always arguing with me like for instance if I said see you later, I have to go. Then he'd reply back and forth arguing with me saying that online people dont need to say that. Wtf . Thats why I'm only on here for a few minutes once a day. I dont like encountering bat shit crazy online people.
SmoothKnight · 51-55, M
Too many damn snowflakes who are easily butt-hurt....🤦♂️
Elessar · 26-30, M
Goddamn incels