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Are you a forgiver ?

I am, no matter how someone treats me like shit or hurts me, I always forgive, but I never forget and I set some boundaries to not get hurt again after I gave them chances that they blew🤷‍♀️

Its not keeping a grudge, it's protecting myself 🙂
Ducky · 31-35, F
I may forgive, but I never forget. I might get over someone hurting me, but I'm not gonna give them a chance to do it again. I don't care if they're really sorry for it (they never are though, lol), they should've used their head and just not done it. I guess that makes me not a forgiver, lol. People can call it what they want, but that's how I am.
Fairydust · F
Yes I do, don’t forget though. 🥰
Classified · M
Guess so, but I don't think I've been through really bad stuff that would make it difficult. 🤔
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
It depends on the nature of the trasnsgression.
NodandaWink · 51-55, M
I never understand this answer. I know what people are trying to say but that is not forgiveness by my understanding. Forgiveness is a reset. I agree that agregeious acts should not be forgotten or forgiven. But that one should let it go and not seek retribution. I suppose that's what people mean when they say forgive but not forget?
SW-User
I am a pushover, an apology is usually good enough for me.
@Mindfulness what is aa pushover?
@SimplyMeChantou someone that's easy to get around. Forgives easily.
@Mindfulness ohhhh ok
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
Always. Without exception. Holding on to bitterness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
exexec · 61-69, C
Yes. I refuse to let bitterness or similar emotions impact my life.
Elisbch · M
Ditto..... but, there have been some instances where I couldn't forgive.
Peril · F
Some things can never be forgiven.
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
Once. Rarely twice. Never thrice
lovelyguy143334 · 36-40, M
Me too ☺️
Allelse · 36-40, M
caccoon · 36-40
I have to "forget" in a sense, or I will not forgive.

And I don't forget
Once burned, twice shy. 😞
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I will forgive but I will never forget what someone did to me. I totally agree, you need to protect yourself.

 
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