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How do you get to know people who never post?

Sometimes I look in the explore people list and see someone whose profile looks interesting but then I see they have no posts and I don't know if its ok to message them. I think probably not because they would post if they want to talk? But then I wonder why they come here at all?
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I wouldn’t start any chat with a person who doesn’t post.
chrisCA · M
I assume members that do not post, or interact on threads are just here to chat, especially if they have Private Chat listed on their profile.
They could also be here just to read stories, and posts.
Like you, I wonder why some people are even on this site.
Mostly they are fake or atl accounts
chrisCA · M
@SimplyMeChantou I suspect some are. Especially if their groups are all of a sexual, or fetish nature, and numerous photos of "themselves" as a young, attractive woman.
tpuk83 · 41-45, MVIP
I almost never post. I check people out by their groups and like to get to know them. If we have some groups in common I PM them. I find that nicer and more individual than posting
Rutterman · 46-50, M
I'd be leery of talking to someone who has posted nothing at all. You're right to wonder why they're here, although I suppose you could talk to them about that.
aprilmay · 22-25, F
@Rutterman I guess you are right. Better to ignore them.
Rutterman · 46-50, M
@aprilmay Maybe wait and see if they posting something. They might be new and haven't gotten around to it.
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HannahBee · F
I’m still trying to figure out how to get to know people as well, I guess I need to post more! Lol. I just don’t think I have anything interesting to say.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
It's ok to pm them in my opinion... They'll either respond or not ... Often people join up then just disappear also, life intrudes
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
One of my rules. If you're not going to post or comment, then youre just lurking so - no thx.
SW-User
Being judgmental here, they’re just here to troll and/or stalk
Contrary to the often expressed sentiment on here that users with no posts are likely to be suspicious, trolls, untrustworthy etc, I can tell you categorically that’s not always true. Treat each case on its own merits I’d suggest.
How did you find them in the first place?
@aprilmay just message them. If they dont wanna reply then they wont
aprilmay · 22-25, F
@SStarfish I don't want to be rude or anything
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
It can be just as hard to get to know people that DO post lol. I gave up messaging people for the most part because they almost never respond. GL
SolGryn · 31-35, M
I'm sure most people here would love to talk
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