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So, what would your reaction be if you came home to find your husband/son/father/brother/boyfriend/buddy looking like this?
shock, surprise, sad, joy, disgust, anger, acceptance, annoyance, amusement, get the credit cards out because we are going shopping!
Peaches · F
Actually my sister DID come home and find her husband dressed like this. She was shocked, but then she started helping him dress up the way he wanted. ⭐
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Peaches I would imagine that most women would not react that way. But it is nice to hear that she was so understanding and maybe that he would be more understanding of just what she has to go through to look the way she does.
@Peaches i appluad your sister. They are jusy clothes. Nothing more. Fabric and colours. Neither fabric or colours have a sex. There are plants and dye. She , that is women, wears whatwver she wants and so should he.
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Oh get credit card out and take him shopping
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Deeana081971 After my own heart, Deeana!!
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WillaKissing · 56-60
@ReneeT @Deeana081971 Yes and she stole my heart as well!
Repete · 61-69, M
I think boys / men should be able to wear dresses if they want to . So that being said I’d be surprised then I’d say you look different in that but it looks great on you. You aught to wear more like that .
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Repete That is a beautiful sentiment to have. Acceptance is sometimes such a hard thing to give out. Especially when the change is not expected..
22Michelle · 61-69, T
My wife was a little confused at first and told me she was okay if I wanted to dress, but she didn't want to see me dressed. Then after a few months she said she couldn't understand why she didnt want to see me dressed. I then modelled a dress and she loved the dress, and thought I looked great in it. Since then she's bevome more comfortable and happy with my dressing. We now shop together and she now prefers my taste in clothes rather than her own.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@22Michelle That is so great to hear Michelle. So much fun to both go shopping for each other
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@ReneeT It is, and to have someone give you a good opinion. And before I came out she didn’t pay much attention to my opinion "well I like it". Now she accepts my opinion every time.
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SW-User
It was shock to a few people. Some friends were like “I figured something like this”
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@SW-User But it is such a relief when you can truly be yourself
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oldtbutgoody · 70-79, M
Actually I would be surprised at how attractive he looks
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@oldtbutgoody That is a different take. Thanks for those nice comments
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@silkydrawers That is so true. I always try to put forth my best feminine self.
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I would be most attracted to the beautiful lady in my home. I would need to change out of work drabs and dress for a night out!
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Txbob52 Now that is a unique take on it. But it is a nice thought. Thank you for that
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oldtbutgoody · 70-79, M
get the credit cards out
SissySecrets · 46-50, T
I’d ask for a date.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Looks good, I'd accept them of course.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@ninalanyon I figured that you would.
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WillaKissing · 56-60
Yes, going shopping!
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
If they were as beautiful as you probably be speechless
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit that is so sweet of you to say.
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StevexStephie · 70-79
@silkydrawers OMG, yessss! So many arousing feelings! So many fantasies and cravings.
I'd tell them to get a belt, on e that is a bright color, to give that dress some pop. Unless they are going to a funeral.

I'd show then how leggings and tights are oft better than stockings, hose or bare legs, esp on older men whose veins blue and green , show. Burnt rose leggings would be nice with that. Burgundy leggings in the Fall.

I's show then about 10 ways to tie a scarf than may be more apt for the at dress, as that cinches then neck to much. It is a male ties of a scarf. Which is what they would be- but some feminine ties may be better.

I'd show them some creams that take away the lines on his hands and also ones that make the elbow gap he has not so noticeable.

A half Cardigan, which are stylish right now, I'd tell him to get. But to remember black and blue are a fashion faux pas.

Lastly, work on your posture and back arch-and watch the positioning of the hands. Open hands, feminine, slightly clenched hands, masculine
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Elandra77 I love your style Elandra. It's cute, simple and hangs nicely.
@ReneeT My 90 year old mother would say "it's too young for you". screw that! I don't see age as she does. I dress as a woman of 28-36. I'm 62. Why? Because I can (pull those looks off) and because I have the shape and attitude for it!

And thanks.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Elandra77 Love it. You should dress how you feel. Although I have seen some older women who want to wear Daisy Mae shorts and it's not a great look.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Being fair i’d be surprised and would have a lot of questions... whatever my reaction I love them and that trumps all

Peace
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@yeronlyman Thanks. That is a nice response!
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
@ReneeT cheers and respect
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@yeronlyman And the same to you also
sillyfire · 41-45, F
surprised at first but now i accept it and enjoy taking him shopping
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plasticpants02 · 61-69, M
@sillyfire wish my wife was more likeyou
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@sillyfire That sounds wonderful. How much does he enjoy shopping? I usually go myself but I would love to have another opinion.
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@silkydrawers Maybe he is getting even more secretive about it. You know as well as I just how hard it is to stop once you have found some joy in it.
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
It wouldn't matter to me. Whatever makes him happy.
@Fungirlmmm You rock, baby. 🤗
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Fungirlmmm Thanks for that. You are always so easy going fungirlmmm. That is why I enjoy talking with you
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@JustGoneNow I love it. ☺ Thanks for that. It makes me feel good.🤗
Angeleyez · 51-55, F
I’d have to say my first reaction would be shock, or surprised I know I might have a question or 100 lol but in all honesty it would not change my opinion of them or my love for them. They are still after all the same person inside no matter how they dress on the outside.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Angeleyez That is what I would hope they would say. It is only clothes after all. And if they feel comfortable in them without causing harm to anyone. But I would imagine there would be at least 100 questions about it! lol.
Angeleyez · 51-55, F
@ReneeT exactly! The clothes don’t make the person the heart does. And yes there would be questions, I’m sure more questions would be asked of the b/f or hubby, because both of us would have to understand what both are comfortable with, are they willing to compromise some in order to accommodate the other. After all neither party can have it their way 💯 of the time in the relationship wheather one is a crossdresser or not. If the two can meet in the middle then awesome if they cannot then maybe it be best for each to go their own way. That said even if we couldn’t compromise (ex: if my husband or b/f was cross dressing I wouldn’t have a problem with dressing up, but I wouldn’t be comfortable if he wanted to have sex with men. No I have no problem with homosexuality, however I’m a monogamous person I ain’t sharing with another woman or man lol)
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Angeleyez I know that myself when I am dressed what I would love to do most is to have some real conversation with other women. I don't really have any interest in being with a man when I am dressed. I do feel myself more in touch with my feminine side when dressed and that is one of the main reasons I would love to sit down and have a meaningful conversation.
I'd be so happy for them that they could finally come out. I know coming out as Bisexual to my parents 20 years ago was the most difficult thing I've ever done. My dad's my hero and my Mom's my best friend & I was terrified they wouldn't love me anymore. 🦋
@ReneeT I’m truly sorry for your loss. 🌸
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@JustGoneNow Thank you. 🤗
@ReneeT 🤗
If it were a loved one like family, I would be disappointed that they hadn't told me long ago. If it were my husband, it wouldn't happen. I don't have one. And the ex? He never could accept the fact that he was gay. But everyone figured it out. And I divorced him. He lived a lie his entire life. And people shouldn't hide secrets of this magnitude from those they claim to love. People have to be who they are. I wish people had the courage to be themselves always. It saves a world of pain for others.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@PoetryNEmotion Beautifully spoken. Thank you for that. Hopefully he may someday see who he truly is and not be afraid to admit it.
@ReneeT Thank you. He never will. He is full of excuses and has always lacked responsibility. Have a good evening, Renee.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@PoetryNEmotion You also.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Surprise, possibly shock, probably mutual embarrassment at first anyway... For me, out of your list, it could only be brother or friend. I would not criticise him for it though.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@ArishMell That would have to be a shock for both. But a little understanding could go a long way. Thank you for the opinion
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@ReneeT Indeed, and I would hope for the understanding.
Gentlemickey · 70-79, M
Lately I have been much more daring and going out dressed as a lady more and more... I think I want to get caught by someone I know... just to see how they react !!👗
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Gentlemickey It really is a hard decision to make. Whether you want to be so private or let whatever happens happen. Good luck to you.
Cute outfit Sweet heart Love it.
I would not mind at all come home to see you in that love it.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
Thank you for that. Maybe we could even head out for a little bit of shopping. Always looking for help with outfits. 🤗💋@Deeana081971
oldtbutgoody · 70-79, M
I WOULD SAY HE DID A GREAT JOB.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@oldtbutgoody Practice makes it work
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
Depends on which buddy most couldnt pull off that look but a couple could which might be interesting
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@2ndtimeguy I'll bet the conversation may be something! 😏
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
@ReneeT yes if they looked that good
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@2ndtimeguy Thank you 😌
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@silkydrawers No. He is actually suffering from a pretty crippling disease so he is just trying to survive now
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oldtbutgoody · 70-79, M
renee not sure on my reaction, I thinks you look good in fact very sexy
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@oldtbutgoody Thank you. I was just wondering how someone would have felt had they walked in on someone they knew but never suspected that they liked to be this way.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@ItsRichard That is very much appreciated.
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@1stexhub That could be a very interesting conversation, don't you think?
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Jennagurl · 46-50, T
She might be envious of your dress.
Jennagurl · 46-50, T
@ReneeT he would ask you to twirl after that whistle.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Jennagurl Ooh yes. I think I could manage that.
Jennagurl · 46-50, T
@ReneeT of course. That's what friends do. He likes what he sees and wants a better view.
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ReneeT · 61-69, M
@easyDoesIT Wine! Now that would be a good start.

 
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