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[b]Question[/b]
So, what would your reaction be if you came home to find your husband/son/father/brother/boyfriend/buddy looking like this?
shock, surprise, sad, joy, disgust, anger, acceptance, annoyance, amusement, get the credit cards out because we are going shopping!
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Angeleyez · 51-55, F
I’d have to say my first reaction would be shock, or surprised I know I might have a question or 100 lol but in all honesty it would not change my opinion of them or my love for them. They are still after all the same person inside no matter how they dress on the outside.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Angeleyez That is what I would hope they would say. It is only clothes after all. And if they feel comfortable in them without causing harm to anyone. But I would imagine there would be at least 100 questions about it! lol.
Angeleyez · 51-55, F
@ReneeT exactly! The clothes don’t make the person the heart does. And yes there would be questions, I’m sure more questions would be asked of the b/f or hubby, because both of us would have to understand what both are comfortable with, are they willing to compromise some in order to accommodate the other. After all neither party can have it their way 💯 of the time in the relationship wheather one is a crossdresser or not. If the two can meet in the middle then awesome if they cannot then maybe it be best for each to go their own way. That said even if we couldn’t compromise (ex: if my husband or b/f was cross dressing I wouldn’t have a problem with dressing up, but I wouldn’t be comfortable if he wanted to have sex with men. No I have no problem with homosexuality, however I’m a monogamous person I ain’t sharing with another woman or man lol)
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@Angeleyez I know that myself when I am dressed what I would love to do most is to have some real conversation with other women. I don't really have any interest in being with a man when I am dressed. I do feel myself more in touch with my feminine side when dressed and that is one of the main reasons I would love to sit down and have a meaningful conversation.