are some "replaceable" to you?

@OogieBoogie I really hate it because it makes me feel weak and Im not weak. Accepting? I had no choice. I never did. Able to move on? We have to move on...I chose to move on with that regret.

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@Rilyn moving on ? ...i sincerely hope you do .
Its a good choice .

Some wallow in their past misery for the rest of their lives till it defines who they are.

It takes time ....and memorires can betray you when they pop up.

Saddnees has value - without it, happiness means nothing.

Life is yin and yang, up and down , the wheel forever turns.

But to let it go, to move on, you have to practice getting your mind to do just that .

Everything we think can become a habit .

Its why i say pull yourself out of thinking it for too long ....its not a habit ypuve chosen to keep .

Which is really brilliant .

Being present is where you need to be 💚🤗💜

@Straylight I can read minds sometimes 😌

@Rilyn My immediate thought is - don't try to. Accept that was their shape in your life and gone then that leaves that hole but find a different shape hole for a new person to fit that was perhaps obscured by the previous one. Good luck

@OldBrit I tried. But I cant. That shape is just theirs and finding new shapes overwhelms me still. Thank you 🙏

@Rilyn Well I wish you the best to find a way through it. Take care

@ABCDEF7 Its not that they are not warranted. If they weren't Id just walk away. Question is how unique is unique and ....

But yes I try to focus mostly on you. Its not your fault when your mind reminds you of what you had that you lost when you try and get too close again though

@Rilyn It is definitely very hard, but we have to adopt different methods to relax and refresh our mind to accept the things in new scenario.

@Degbeme you work too hard. Theyll soon promote you here he he 😌🔱

@Rilyn Promoted to what? 🔱

@Degbeme My right hand man 😌🔱

@CrazyMusicLover Right? If they sre unique then all you can do is try and find similar qualities....but it takes you back to that uniqueness and thats why it stings.

@Soossie Mines been hurt a few times.

@Rilyn

I’m sorry to hear … but how are we going to get stronger if we don’t mend that heart each and every time that it’s broken ?? We get stronger and we move on … 🌸🌸

@WillaKissing my family has been given the payoff.

@Rilyn I am so sorry to hear that. I hate to see families disowning their own.

@DunningKruger Bit too emotionally charged I guess and more than a simple PG rating 👀

@Rilyn Sure. Sometimes, you have to tone down the source material for your target audience. But the core is in there.

@DunningKruger Yeah. Somehow the core survived.

@chasingThursday that bad huh? You can jail them too 😁

@Rilyn to the dungeon!

@Elessar he made himself replaceable in the end 👀

@SW-User No I didnt

@riseofthemachine I wouldnt say replaceable exactly. Id rather say you moved on towards something better. The only thing that exists forever is death.

@Rilyn they should know better. I fear that trident of yours

@PhoenixPhail Awe dont say that makes me sad :/

@Rilyn Please don't be sad. It will be a most glorious relief to me.

@Justmeraeagain Some do. Others dont occupy my mind as much. The one that does its overwhelming tho

@TallMtnMedic If its worked for you

@Rilyn It has, its a survival mechanism for me actually. Dont get me wrong, Id love to have more close friends, but 3 were with me at my lowest, and 2 still remain today.

Yes, I have friends, but 2 that actually took the time to know me.

One is a friend that has gone to soccer with me and a few concerts his wife lets him.

The other is a woman that Ive known over 20 years. She doesnt live here though.

@TallMtnMedic hmmm lots of girls there involved from what youre saying :p

@Steph34 yus thats what I meant

@Rilyn Thank you, I am sorry that you ended up in that situation, it doesn't sound that great for you.

@Steph34 Actually...I dont think I got replaced but its me dealing with that issue...still, I struggle because personally for me I cant but I wonder if others struggled with it too ....🌹

@vetguy1991 Ive had more than enough of it

@Tarnished I failed even in that

@Rilyn It's an unfortunate part of life.

@geoam1 Lots are

@geoam1 Ironic. No ones close to me. I dont let anyone close to me after an incident I had ...but im friends with all...

@pancakeslam So theres a 25per cent? 👀

@Rilyn about 85% can go to the compost bin yeah

@aboveaverageaveragejoe epic here

@aboveaverageaveragejoe ah yes thats a good way to put it

@iamonfire696 I have very limited ones

@Rilyn I know how that goes, wish you had more too lovely 🩷

@basilfawlty89 Replaced or ghosted?

@Rilyn thoroughly and unceremoniously replaced.