are some "replaceable" to you?

Rilyn · 2024-07-15T15:57:16-05:00

Close Friends - are some "replaceable" to you? (100 replies).

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OldBrit · 61-69, M

Stuff, places, people all come and go in our lives. Some through our choice, some through circumstance etc.

More that I have some that are irreplaceable to me the ones that even if they went no one would ever completely fit that shaped hole they'd have vacated.

Rilyn · 31-35, F

@OldBrit I guess I can say I messed up and was on autopilot searching for something familiar. But it just got worse.

Those persons....? They can never be replaced but I cant find their similar anywhere and that hurts.

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@Rilyn My immediate thought is - don't try to. Accept that was their shape in your life and gone then that leaves that hole but find a different shape hole for a new person to fit that was perhaps obscured by the previous one. Good luck

Rilyn · 31-35, F

@OldBrit I tried. But I cant. That shape is just theirs and finding new shapes overwhelms me still. Thank you 🙏

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@Rilyn Well I wish you the best to find a way through it. Take care