are some "replaceable" to you?

@OogieBoogie

This …. 🤗🌸

@OogieBoogie Life did go on but ..going back to my memories....you cant exactly replace who you had unresolved issues. Does not work that way with me.

@Ilena thats my point.

You dont replace.


Expecting to, is unrealistic and emotionally unhealthy.

And is exceedingly unfair on the person who becomes a 'replacement'.

You don't replace, you move on.

@OogieBoogie Im not over it and its really draining..some days I can ignore it others its suffocating...

@OogieBoogie I really hate it because it makes me feel weak and Im not weak. Accepting? I had no choice. I never did. Able to move on? We have to move on...I chose to move on with that regret.

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@Ilena moving on ? ...i sincerely hope you do .
Its a good choice .

Some wallow in their past misery for the rest of their lives till it defines who they are.

It takes time ....and memorires can betray you when they pop up.

Saddnees has value - without it, happiness means nothing.

Life is yin and yang, up and down , the wheel forever turns.

But to let it go, to move on, you have to practice getting your mind to do just that .

Everything we think can become a habit .

Its why i say pull yourself out of thinking it for too long ....its not a habit ypuve chosen to keep .

Which is really brilliant .

Being present is where you need to be 💚🤗💜