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pearllederman · 61-69, F
not that i remember but i try not to
Miklee02 · 51-55, F
No! But I’ve been taken for granted a few times 😕
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@Miklee02 I'm sorry someone would do that to you. 🤗🤗🤗
GlitterEater · 36-40, F
In the sense that I've lost friends who I never imagined would die young.
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Would never do that.
SW-User
I'm the friend that is taken for granted
elafina · 36-40, F
Recently a friend messaged me saying something like "I am a bit inconsistent but we're not going to loose contact anyways" and usually I kept lots of relationships like this... But this time I replied "not so sure" and closed the case within me..
Pfuzylogic · M
Did take his girlfriend.
I know …“bad friend”!
I know …“bad friend”!
Pfuzylogic · M
@Soossie
He set the whole conversation up about how he wanted to fight and would I back him up.
The girl was very cute but ended after a week when I wasn’t entertaining.
He set the whole conversation up about how he wanted to fight and would I back him up.
The girl was very cute but ended after a week when I wasn’t entertaining.
@Pfuzylogic
She definitely wasn’t worth losing a friend … but we all do things that can hurt a friend …
She definitely wasn’t worth losing a friend … but we all do things that can hurt a friend …
Pfuzylogic · M
@Soossie
We were still friends.
He learned you don’t have me jump into the sleeping bag with your girlfriend.
We were still friends.
He learned you don’t have me jump into the sleeping bag with your girlfriend.
Explorer · 41-45, M
Yes. I had taken my own wife then ( now ex) for granted and I deeply regret it. However that experience has taught me a valuable lesson in life.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Yes when I was in my late teens and totally feel terrible about it. 😞
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
@Soossie I was really crappy though. ☹️
I would love the opportunity to apologize to her, but will never happen.
I would love the opportunity to apologize to her, but will never happen.
@Jeephikelove
I hope she has already forgiven and forgotten … when we’re young, we do many things that we regret later … 🌹
I hope she has already forgiven and forgotten … when we’re young, we do many things that we regret later … 🌹
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
@Soossie true
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I actually don't even know. I just know I've never fought for anyone's friendship. I always appreciated everyone who gave me their attention and company but when they were gone that was it. Sometimes you have someone to talk to and laugh with, other times you don't. I'm surprised how many friends I actually had considering how little I invested in them.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Soossie Of course but I'm not sure how you mean it. How they felt in those moments when we were together or how they felt about our friendship?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Soossie yes
Musicman · 61-69, M
Not to my knowledge, but I have definitely been taken for granted.
Elisbch · M
No, I haven't and I wouldn't. I haven't had that many. Good friends are too hard to find. 😕
Notanymore · 36-40, M
I think anyone that says they've never are probably overlooking times when they did, else they were completely oblivious to taking another person for granted, which may be worse. I've honestly done it more than once and often times it eats at me. I've also randomly realized time and again, the times when I may have or definitely did take someone for granted without consideration of the fact.
@Notanymore
Most people do it intentionally … but some plan it and do it so easily … that’s heartbreaking …
Most people do it intentionally … but some plan it and do it so easily … that’s heartbreaking …
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@Soossie it's definitely heartbreaking, and there's definitely people in the world who choose their friends strictly based on the benefit offered.
RedBaron · M
I’ve taken friends for lunch or dinner, but never granted! 🤣🤣
Nebula · 41-45, F
Yeah and yeah 🫤
smiler2012 · 56-60
[@soosie] no not my way i respect friendship and would never take advantage of that
smiler2012 · 56-60
[@soosie] only kidding 😆we can enjoy banter especially when it is directed towards ned and nimby and the second best team in manchester
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Soossie 😆well alright if bury had not gone bust and oldham where still in the football league that would make united the fourth best team in manchester lol sorry if rochdale like oldham where still in the football league that would relegate them too the sixth best team in manchester as there also salford in league two lol
Ducky · 31-35, F
Several times, yes. Lesson learned. Now I don't keep any friends further than I can throw them. When they inevitably stray, oh well. It was always going to happen eventually.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
No
jamie79 · 46-50, F
I don’t know if taking the friendship for granted is the right term, but I definitely did not show her the respect and consideration she deserves. 😔
Adogslife · 61-69, M
No, never. I keep my circle of friends very small. If we’re tight, I’ve got your back no matter what.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
Yes recently and luckily I didn't lose them as a friend 😢
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@Soossie I'm so glad I didn't lose her seriously never take your friends for granted
It's not easy to just go out and make friends especially really good genuine people
It's not easy to just go out and make friends especially really good genuine people
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
No, but I've had it happen to me in the past. Maybe I was too trusting.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
No. I couldnt do that.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Soossie Thankyou Soossie. Its so nice to see you too. Thankyou!🤗🤗🤗
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Not that I can recall 💁♂️
Not that I can recall 💁♂️
@Soossie I’m always good 🤭
SatyrService · M
Learned not to....
SatyrService · M
@Soossie I went to Knocks University
Khenpal1 · M
yes , when I was younger.
calicuz · 51-55, M
No, I don't think I have.
Kazuya69 · 31-35, M
Not so far.
DreamyCrush · F
Yes and Yes
BizSuitStacy · M
Probably
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
Yes.
bijouxbroussard · F
I don’t have so many that I can afford to do that. But I have lost track of people when life interfered, often what they were involved with. And I [b]have[/b] wished I’d been more assertive in reaching out. 🥺
Elanor · F
Never.
LordShadowfire · M
Yes, and yes.
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