For me it has been hard given my condition and appearance but found the ones that I have made are amazing.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
Generally I think I scare people.
They don't understand why I'm so happy and bubbly most days.
Consequently it pisses people off or it triggers them to try and find a way to just piss me off.
My happy go lucky spirit isn't appreciated.
There are menes about the annoyingly happy person in the office first thing. Well that's me. But it's simply because I've been up since 6am and had a chance to wake up!
So no, I annoy people.
They don't understand why I'm so happy and bubbly most days.
Consequently it pisses people off or it triggers them to try and find a way to just piss me off.
My happy go lucky spirit isn't appreciated.
There are menes about the annoyingly happy person in the office first thing. Well that's me. But it's simply because I've been up since 6am and had a chance to wake up!
So no, I annoy people.
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Gangstress · 41-45, F
@Mellowgirl i love that about you lol but u love our chats in general
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Lilnonames @Gangstress thank you...
I know I'm more a marmite kinda person. You either love me or hate me.
I'm cool with that. Lol and I like both of you two
I know I'm more a marmite kinda person. You either love me or hate me.
I'm cool with that. Lol and I like both of you two
Tracos · 51-55, M
@Mellowgirl we could be friends ✌️
Teirdalin · 31-35
Pretty easily, keeping them is the hard part. I have a tendency to just, stop talking out of nowhere.
CookieCrumbs · F
To be friendly with, easy.
To let into my life? I don’t do that often.
To let into my life? I don’t do that often.
TexChik · F
@CookieCrumbs Exactly
CookieCrumbs · F
@TexChik
I can be outgoing and friendly. My job requires me to be good in interacting with people. But I don’t declare new “best friends” right and left. I’m very selective in sharing about my life.
I can be outgoing and friendly. My job requires me to be good in interacting with people. But I don’t declare new “best friends” right and left. I’m very selective in sharing about my life.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
out of paper mache
Submissiveiendencies · 26-30
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I'm friendly, I'll talk to anyone, but I really don't trust people.
Repete · 70-79, M
Making friends that I can chat randomly with , very easy. Friends to get real close to not so easy anymore . I’ve begun keeping people from getting to close. I’m just beginning to enjoy a new life for me with no one that depends on me all the time.
ThaiGirl · 26-30, F
With one pic 😂
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
When im in the mood. Im great at friends. I extroverted enough to bring people together. I think i could rally a crowd.
When im not in the mood. Im a ghost or im hostile and trying to contain it. Im introverted enough to completely let go of other people for a while.
When im not in the mood. Im a ghost or im hostile and trying to contain it. Im introverted enough to completely let go of other people for a while.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I'm quite friendly and I make a lot of people around me laugh. Making an initial connection with someone I'm pretty good at but sustaining those connections not so great.
I'm somewhat reserved when it comes to actually initiating and reaching out to people, even my very dear old friends I see IRL. I like my alone time and have this strong notion I might be bothering others when/if I do reach out- so I kinda just don't. Which is a behavior that doesn't foster healthy friendships. Nor does being a total homebody hobbit pothead who never really goes out so I only really meet new people online.
I'm somewhat reserved when it comes to actually initiating and reaching out to people, even my very dear old friends I see IRL. I like my alone time and have this strong notion I might be bothering others when/if I do reach out- so I kinda just don't. Which is a behavior that doesn't foster healthy friendships. Nor does being a total homebody hobbit pothead who never really goes out so I only really meet new people online.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
On a scale of ‘difficulty’, Zero being least difficult …
An 8 out of 10
An 8 out of 10
It used to be easy but after many times getting used for something other than friendship iv learned not to get burned and that makes me picky now.
BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
Not so easily , Both in real life and online
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
Depends 👀
Lilnonames · F
@XDHyperGirlXD1 if foods involved😋
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Lilnonames hmmmm food 🤤
Mooed78 · F
Quite easily.. but it can take time
On SW, making friends is easy. Keeping friends is not.
To make friends you tell people what they want to hear - what they need to hear and pucker up.
AS soon as you say something they do not like then they will block you and make a post about it.
Friends.
To make friends you tell people what they want to hear - what they need to hear and pucker up.
AS soon as you say something they do not like then they will block you and make a post about it.
Friends.
akindheart · 61-69, F
i really don't. some people are afraid of my direct style.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@akindheart Me too, or my style of dressing.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@WillaKissing a lot of people don't understand cross dressing. that is i am sure what you are faced with
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@akindheart Yes.
Jungleman · M
not easily, half the time i just have difficulty in putting up with people and tolerating them, and i take offence very easily too.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
it all depends upon the honesty of the person I am thinking of befriending or not.
Selah ·
Im wary of people but i find it easy to make friends and difficult to maintain
Wiseacre · F
Not easily...I quite enjoy my own company
Ducky · 31-35, F
I don't. I lose them pretty easily though.

SW-User
Real true and honest friends very rarely
YoMomma ·
Idk id have to leave the house for that 😅
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
With great difficulty.
chasingThursday · 41-45, M
It’s very hard for me 😅
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
Not easy at all.
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Not at all 🌻
Lilymoon · F
it's not easy tbh I have walls. 😦 lol
I don't.

SW-User
Not very
I'm a weirdo
I'm a weirdo
Ferric67 · M
@SW-User I have a built in defense...I have a hearing impairment

SW-User
@Ferric67 sometimes I wish I did ..my hearing is too good
Ferric67 · M
@SW-User try this next time someone's talking to you and you want no part of it.
Stare them straight in the face and stick your fingers in your ears.
As dense as they may be, they will get that hint
Guaranteed
or
Your money back
Stare them straight in the face and stick your fingers in your ears.
As dense as they may be, they will get that hint
Guaranteed
or
Your money back
bugeye · 26-30, F
fairly easily :)
it's keeping them that's my problem.
it's keeping them that's my problem.
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@bugeye you will always have me ☺️
bugeye · 26-30, F
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@bugeye lockpick the cupboard 🍽️

SW-User
Not easily at all anymore. And my own doing. It's very hard for me to trust people.
Expressman · 61-69
I don't. Having been abused by family, derided and sneered at and made fun of, I abhor anyone being near me. They hurt me and I'm not wanting that hurt anymore.
Friendships are draining, not fulfilling.
Friendships are draining, not fulfilling.
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
Not easily at all. I’m a very quiet person.
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
I make them easy but I can't seem to keep them
Anielka · F
With men pretty easy, with other women I keep my distance til I really know them.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
I am not an introvert bit still it takes a hell lot of time for me to make friends.
Tracos · 51-55, M
It used to be much easier
Alfarrobas · 31-35, M
Depends
Ferric67 · M
Very
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I can be very friendly with people but letting them in is another thing
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