Is it legitimately weird or tone deaf to send someone a bikini or swimsuit pic?

@Viper God it's fucking weird being ace and not understanding these kinds of social norms. I feel like a computer that's missing essential software lmao

@BlueMetalChick I sort of understand, not with sexual stuff, but there are other social norms that I just don't get or miss, or don't care about.

You'll seem like your seeking attention, even if you're just pointing out, you think you look good.

But it also depends on the mood of the other person. If they're not in clothing mood, it could also get negative thoughts or options.

@BlueMetalChick if they know you really well, they would not think its creepy. I dont think it's that creepy if it's something you do all the time

@MarmeeMarch They don't eat corn, they eat mice.

@EuphoricTurtle BRUH 😂

@CrustyDDingus Well...there were a couple on my story that were HELLA fucking edgy, like that money pic.

@BlueMetalChick Yeah, but you already established that time you were high af, we actually had a pretty lengthy chat that night lol

@CrustyDDingus Plus that was on my story and not privately sent.

@ronisme1 Usually my sister or roomie comes with.

@BlueMetalChick well, do my other suggestion then

@BlueMetalChick Well even so... if you posted something like "hey I am at the beach today, woot woot" it seems like you would be in a swimsuit or bikini? It would look odd in jeans and a hoodie. I wouldn't think you were trying to get a rise out of me other than jealousy of not being at the beach.

@Jessichaos Those I think are excusable but my dressing room pics at the mall are probably a bit much.

@BlueMetalChick Again, depends. If you sent it to me with like "do I buy purple or blue?" - not weird. If you sent it to me saying something like "lookit muh boobs" and we didn't have a joking relationship, then maybe. But given that I am a joking/mischievous person maybe I'm the odd one where I don't take it seriously? 🤷

Counterpoint - if you had sexual charged convos/advances that I didn't reciprocate and I made it clear, then that would be an exception.

Idk, the whole thing seems tempest in a teapot to me given our chances of bumping uglies are miniscule so it's hard for me to really take it that sort of situation too seriously.

@Thespis I guess to expand on that thought, everyone sees what they want to see. Is a bikini sexual, well depends on the person viewing it. Some people find a foot pic sexual, but it shouldn't change how you treat a cute pair of sandals. Some people see bikinis as sexual, some nudity, I can see nudity as just skin, a body, normal and human. Rock what you want to rock, be comfortable, and if they're the ones sexualizing, that's their problem.

@BlueMetalChick welp you might have a Russian Facebook alt identity or something if you're sending to strangers.

@lovelywarpedlemon I'm actually Putin's agent.

I don't send that sorta stuff to strangers though. I usually just do it with people I have on snap or IG.

@BlueMetalChick if you know it looks great, buy it and take the picture. Close friends will ask to see it and then you can show them

@BlueMetalChick is it what ur sending in text with the photos that are making them come to those conclusions?

@AuRevoir I think it's because maybe they don't really feel as if they know me like that.

@BlueMetalChick Maybe just check with them? I'm sure lots of people will give you feedback if you want, I like to have a group on snap know is cool with that kind of thing, and then know who isn't and just send stuff to the right people.

@MagnifiqueGirl You seen me post that back in the day, I used to do that on my old ass snap.

@ViciDraco I guess I never really thought about this shit before.