Is it legitimately weird or tone deaf to send someone a bikini or swimsuit pic?
Is that like considered a sexually charged thing to do?
26-30, F
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Jessichaos · 26-30, F
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
Lovely :P@Jessichaos
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@Jessichaos I think it's also cos I overestimate how close I am with people. Like I feel as if I'm already good friends with them shortly after meeting them. Maybe I get too personal too quickly.
Jessichaos · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick Well even so... if you posted something like "hey I am at the beach today, woot woot" it seems like you would be in a swimsuit or bikini? It would look odd in jeans and a hoodie. I wouldn't think you were trying to get a rise out of me other than jealousy of not being at the beach.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@Jessichaos Those I think are excusable but my dressing room pics at the mall are probably a bit much.
Jessichaos · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick Again, depends. If you sent it to me with like "do I buy purple or blue?" - not weird. If you sent it to me saying something like "lookit muh boobs" and we didn't have a joking relationship, then maybe. But given that I am a joking/mischievous person maybe I'm the odd one where I don't take it seriously? 🤷
Counterpoint - if you had sexual charged convos/advances that I didn't reciprocate and I made it clear, then that would be an exception.
Idk, the whole thing seems tempest in a teapot to me given our chances of bumping uglies are miniscule so it's hard for me to really take it that sort of situation too seriously.
Counterpoint - if you had sexual charged convos/advances that I didn't reciprocate and I made it clear, then that would be an exception.
Idk, the whole thing seems tempest in a teapot to me given our chances of bumping uglies are miniscule so it's hard for me to really take it that sort of situation too seriously.