Is it legitimately weird or tone deaf to send someone a bikini or swimsuit pic?

@Viper Yeah I guess maybe that's the critical factor is that like I often do it without like having that pre-established history with. Like if I just suddenly send you a pic like that without saying anything maybe it would seem creepy.

@BlueMetalChick Thanks for best comment. Yes, if you do it with no pre-established history it would seem like you're trying to be sexy and attractive and trying to turn the person on...

Which could absolutely be creepy to those that aren't in the mood or moment.

Especially for those that know you'll never be trying to turn them on.

@Viper God it's fucking weird being ace and not understanding these kinds of social norms. I feel like a computer that's missing essential software lmao

@BlueMetalChick I sort of understand, not with sexual stuff, but there are other social norms that I just don't get or miss, or don't care about.

You'll seem like your seeking attention, even if you're just pointing out, you think you look good.

But it also depends on the mood of the other person. If they're not in clothing mood, it could also get negative thoughts or options.

@BlueMetalChick if they know you really well, they would not think its creepy. I dont think it's that creepy if it's something you do all the time