Is it legitimately weird or tone deaf to send someone a bikini or swimsuit pic?

Is that like considered a sexually charged thing to do?

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Thespis · M

I think it depends on your relationship with the person. I send nude or semi nude non-sexual selfies to people I know are comfortable with it (consent is a must). Not to get them aroused or or anything, just hey here I am chilling and way to lazy to put n pants.

Thespis · M

@Thespis I guess to expand on that thought, everyone sees what they want to see. Is a bikini sexual, well depends on the person viewing it. Some people find a foot pic sexual, but it shouldn't change how you treat a cute pair of sandals. Some people see bikinis as sexual, some nudity, I can see nudity as just skin, a body, normal and human. Rock what you want to rock, be comfortable, and if they're the ones sexualizing, that's their problem.