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Has anyone ever been disrespectful even though it was not intentional?

I realized that I end up getting more impatient with my mom, even though I never

I inadvertently spoke to her in a rude manner today. I snapped at her on Wednesday, and then on Sunday I was feeling agitated and I took it out on her.

I didn't intentionally decide to do those things, but I ended up doing them anyway. And because of this she doesn't want me being around her.

I’m worried I’m slowly turning into this nasty and rude person who’s always disrespectful.

I know my mom loves me, but I feel like I can’t be loved by her because of the evil person I’m becoming.

I wish I was perfect. I wish I was able to do or say everything right, and unable to do the wrong thing. I wish it was much easier to always follow the good path, but I always mess things up!

Maybe this is why I don’t deserve to have any friends. I don’t deserve to be loved by anyone. I deserve to be the most hated person in the world!
Matt85 · 36-40, M
You clearly have regrets so youre not as bad as you feel you are. Say a quick prayer for her, I find it usually clears the air.
[big][center][u][i][b][c=A69800]Hey, do not worry about what happened, some things like that happen and we cannot always be happy/goo/getting on with one another.
Do u still live with ur parents as conflicts happen more when you live with Family.


Don't think too much into this. You are a good guy and sadly this happens but it does NOT mean that "you are evil" and that you should not be "liked by others".



Maybe you can apologize and tell her that you did not mean what you said/did.


Maybe ask her on tips on how to be okay and not lose ur patience with others..



Hope that you work things out and that things get better.





Answering ur q: YES people have been disrespectful to me both intentional and unintentional! Also I have been rude to others.[/c][/b][/i][/u][/center][/big]
WandererTony · 56-60, M
Your realisation of your mistake is the first step to correction. Dont blame yourself. Try to control your anger and rudeness. She loves you. You cannot chose your mother. Dont curse yourself. Just try to give back the love you got.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
All this tells me is you're aware you need a healthy outlet for your frustrations /and or a way to cool down. So find them. And improve.
4meAndyou · F
You should write your mother a letter of apology. She might not want to be around you right now, because the memory of your rudeness is too fresh, but if you tell her that you [i]realize[/i] how badly you behaved toward her and how much you want to change, I think she will forgive you.

One thing about mothers is that they WANT to forgive their children...because they LOVE them.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@,mylegguy2020] ok you knew what you said was out of order and that it credit to you have you apologised to mum . sounds like you have realised you have temper issues and really it is only you that really has the power too keep the reign on this ,sometimes in a situation like that is best just to take a step back and perhaps walk away
BrandonAngel2023 · 36-40, M
Dont feel bad man i stay into it with my mom to.. And ive told her i dont want to be homeless but ill leave and will be cause it would be better for the both of us.. Makes no difference to me.. It wouldnt be the first time ive been homeless in my life.. But.. Hope things get better for you man..
Just cause you aren't perfect doesn't mean you are evil.. evil is intentional.. maybe you are just highly stressed and need to surround yourself with a better environment.. why even talk to your mom if she just aggravates you?
HellsBelle · 31-35, F
but WHY did you snap?

do not beat yourself up. You did wrong but ask yourself WHY. Get therapy. Most insurances cover it.

You deserve love.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Just give her a call to say sorry. It will make you both feel tons better.
chubbysteve99 · 51-55, MVIP
oh yes and i got what i deserved

 
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