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BohoBabe · M
I grew up with a super strict dad in much more recent times. I don't think I was abused, but I'm sure plenty of people would say I was.

exexec · 70-79, C
There was parental neglect then and it still exists. I was walking the dog two days ago when I saw two little girls, probably 4 or 5 years old, in the playground. They left and walked ahead of us to the pond, which is about two acres of water lilies, bogs, and snakes. They were playing on the fishing pier when I got there. Not an adult in sight. Fortunately, the water is only about two feet deep because of the drought, but still.... Finally, they walked down the trail and turned toward the houses one street over. I realize our neighborhood is fairly safe, but I wonder if the parents even knew where the girls were.
acpguy · C
And kids turned out better. I am a product of that era and raised my kids 5 boys and 1 girl the same way. They all ended up having good jobs making more a lot of money have kids of their own and great wives and a husband.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Different time periods and cultures have different ways of doing things.

Go back 100 years ago and women in the US couldn't vote. A little further back they couldnt own property.

100 years ago leaving Mark's on a kid's backside wasn't considered bad parenting

No telling how we will be judged in 100 years.
SouthernGuy1987 · 36-40, M
I know girls in their 20's who are still regularly spanked at home by their parents so it still exists today. Corporal punishment isn't as common as it used to be but it still happens more than it should
lilylovesgaming1986 · 36-40, F
@SouthernGuy1987 I think the paddle is still being use in Oklahoma schools
SouthernGuy1987 · 36-40, M
@lilylovesgaming1986 Yes, there and most of the southern states still allow it in schools. It's crazy that it's still common in many states 😕
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@lilylovesgaming1986 really, do you have proof? With all the stuff going on in that state, wow!
smiler2012 · 61-69
[@lilylovesgaming198] 🤔nobody likes child abuse there was things that happened in them times under the guise of reasonable chastisement. i am all in favour of corporal punishment in the family circle but only either as a threat last resort
acpguy · C
The soft parents that followed in the 80's and 90's proved the older stricter folks did a better job of parenting................just look at what we have today.
lilylovesgaming1986 · 36-40, F
@acpguy I just found out I am pregnant and I don't know how I am going to handle when he or she is in trouble
Not really. Parents act worse now.. you are just concerned about what meets the eye. Physical abuse is nothing compared to spiritual abuse. Neglecting a child is also child abuse.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
Yes it was my sister and myself got the belt a lot but mostly the hair brush on our bare bottoms
Docdon23 · M
so true--my father would have been arrested!!!
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Yet children were well behaved, not like today
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I disagree. Abusing children was never normal
Neoerectus · M
Worse before that...
And now look how disrespectful and out of control the younger generations are.

 
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