I really wish my young adult son got out more!

Start having bills you cannot afford tell him you need him to have income to help u. Things like internet electricity. Food
Or start selling things of his he no longer uses tell him its to pay the bills. Suggest he works to help out. Tast kinda thing. Things are expensive everywhere. More and more.
It needs to be real for him to understand.

Oh no!!! May be he feels lonely and has no friends. You should speak with him
I mean I know it's hard I don't know what can we do with adult ones.

He's living the dream. Haha. I think thats pretty normal. Both my boys grew out of it.....eventually.

Does he still live with you if so encourage him to leave is it possible solution if he doesn't live with you well you raised him as best you could he will have to learn on his own

I turn off the Internet for my kids. Works like a charm.

@Poetryinmotion51 🤔yes that is a pity but sadly thats how kids now computer games make them too much of a couch potato. they need to get out for a bit of fresh air and some exercise

He's living my dream life

Does he work? Is he on some sort of mental health scheme? I don't wanna judge without knowing more.

I have 1 of those as well. Well, he is not rude. Quite the opposite.

Talk to him , listen to him

You're doing a disservice to him and society by coddling him. Where's his dad?

Well, good job to your parenting.

Do this and he can be rude outside

Let me guess. Child of a broken home? Most likely mom filed for divorce to escape the abuse of a gas lighting narcissist? Yeah he'll never grow up and views the house as his because you raised him that way? Just a guess I could completely wrong.

Probably needs a change of environment.
It's easy to withdraw when there is nowhere outside worth going to or nowhere where they feel they can belong or derive fulfillment from.

how?

He's got no life and he sees no future. How can you help him see there is more to life?

Is he still living at home?

Somebody a way, way back told your son that it was OKAY for him to play video games, sleep until noon and be rude whenever he wanted to. Perhaps you should find that person responsible and take up your son's behavior with them?

If he's not in school any longer he should look for employment

Does he pay rent ?????

He should take mom to lunch

you seem to have a big issue with rudeness. or was my bringing that up rude?

kick him out i left home at 18, never went back

turnoff the wifi, he'll soon leave

Turn off internet for a month, see where that leads. Tell him if his attitude is just as shitty after 30 days you may extend it.
Call it internet Tariffs. Its on, its off, you forget you turned it off, then forget you turned it on.

Change the password to the wifi

People will get away with what you will allow.

Why are you telling us? Only he can do something about it.

When he's 40+ and still there 😅

I blame the parents.

The military is always an option...

young adult son = age