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I just lost my Mom

On Friday 9/19/25 My mom lost her battle with Cancer she was so strong for so long but, the Cancer won. I won't ever forget that day. I was getting my daughter ready for home school. and my dad calls with a simple "She's gone." I just simply went about my day as on auto pilot.

But deep down inside my mind was still swirling with the aspect I won't see my mom again. won't hear her laugh or nag me to play the lottery. I won't be able to bg her about my day. Im a grown man but that simple "shes gone" regressed my mind to that of a boy wanting his mother.

She was the pillar of strength in our family the one you could go to for anything at anytime. she was as nice as they come. People keep telling me it will get better with time but I'll never be truly okay again. the worst of it all is now I have to sit my daughter down. and explain to her why she won't see her Grandmother again. it was a talk I knew I should have had with her. I just feel an emptiness now like a void in the pit of my stomach. I think a part of me died with her. we grieve in our own way. I've been mainly trying to keep busy with my hobbies to take my mind off it. as I don't have many friends.

because when all is silent is when it starts setting in.
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Sweetpoison · 41-45, F
No matter how old you are, you will always need or miss your mother, mine died when i was 16, i still miss her and like you said a part of me died with her.
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Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Jacko1971 Shes gone is the exact thing I heard over the phone.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I am sorry for this.
My husband died of cancer this year.
I have same experience in the evening when all is quiet.
TexChik · F
It is always so horrible when a parent passes. Please do yourself a favor and find a way to stop protecting yourself and allow yourself to grieve for her. Cry, yell, but get that poison out of your heart and soul. No one should carry that around; she never would have wanted you to suffer her passing for the rest of your life. I am sorry she passed and that she was ill. That hurts everyone. Be there for your dad; you guys need each other.
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
The silence and the sudden remembering that they are not there catches you. It's never easy to lose those very close to us and to lose your mom to a horrible disease when you are still so young, must be even worse. I hope really good friends will be there for you at this time and the pain is eased at least a little by fond memories.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
I'm so incredibly sorry to hear this news, I hope you know on some level I know your pain, I lost my mum when I was young.
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lissah · 36-40, F
I'm sorry for your loss. My mom died in 2002 and i still cry when i think of her.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
I am sorry for your loss. It is obvious that herlove for you and you for her remains with you in your memories. That type of energy is eternal.
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
So sorry to hear this 🙏 🕯 🙏 🦋 🌹

Lost my mom over eleven years ago . Still think of her . Tears now and then . Now and then think i should call and tell her something . Then reality . ❤
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
Im sorry for your loss. My mother died on the 16th September.
FlowerPetal · 22-25, F
So sorry for your loss. I'm sending condolence to you and family. 🫂
Prince0217 · M
Sincere Condolences. Sorry for the loss to you and your family. My prayers with you.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
I'm very sorry for your loss. ❤
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I'm so sorry to hear that. ❤
My deepest sympathies to you

I don't even want to imagine what you are going through
May God be with you during this trying time
Sincerest condolences. I lost my mother in 2023 and the world has always felt a bit colder for me, without her to talk to…😞
val70 · 51-55
Take some time for yourself and the grief. It will take some time now before you'll find a balance again. My prayers are with you and your family
YoMomma ·
Sorry.. my friend lost her mom a few years ago and it still kills her i think missing her..
exexec · 70-79, C
I'm so sorry for you and your family.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
I am so sorry for your loss🌹
RedBaron · M
Sorry for your loss. But in time you will take comfort in the realization that you will never have to go through this experience again.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
My condolences on your loss 🙏🌹
urbancowboy · 56-60, M
My condolences 😞💐
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Sorry, lost mine the same way.
That's got to be rough...

So very sorry
Sorry to hear this.
JSul3 · 70-79
So sorry for your loss.
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Bleak · 36-40, F
Irreplaceable loss. 😔
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
So sorry for your loss😓 I’m here if you want a friend
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
My mum died seven years ago after two or three years I started to forget her now it doesn’t hurt anymore

 
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