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Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
If you are an older teen or an adult no as long as you still treat them with respect. I even sometimes under certain circumstances may let my oldest make his own decision in something most recently was if he was ready to attend church camp this year. This is his first year going if he said no I wouldn't made him
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MyLegGuy2020 · M
@Freeranger you do not sound cruel at all. I understand they are my parents. It’s just that I feel like they shouldn’t be involved in certain things, such as how I handle my finances, the type of therapists to speak to for my mental health, etc
Freeranger · M
@MyLegGuy2020 Hey man, thanks. I think, as an adult, the rough part about starting out is having to figure out the pressures of life. Some of us have a certain acumen for it and the rest of (raises hand) learn the hard way.
Regardless buddy, your parents are, at this stage of life a check valve for you mah man. Between what you desire, and the things you need, you need to make your own decisions, but when confusion sets in, we are all blessed when we know we have that fall back line of our parents.
As long as you understand the distinction of that line, primo bud.
They cannot live your life for you....you need to take that lead but, ANY parent(s) if they are loving, giving, balanced, people will gladly sit down with you and help you draw up a map as to how you reach your objective.
My best to you bud
Regardless buddy, your parents are, at this stage of life a check valve for you mah man. Between what you desire, and the things you need, you need to make your own decisions, but when confusion sets in, we are all blessed when we know we have that fall back line of our parents.
As long as you understand the distinction of that line, primo bud.
They cannot live your life for you....you need to take that lead but, ANY parent(s) if they are loving, giving, balanced, people will gladly sit down with you and help you draw up a map as to how you reach your objective.
My best to you bud
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JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
MyLegGuy2020 · M
@JimboSaturn im 27
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@MyLegGuy2020 Then no, you are an adult.
TheBatQueen · 26-30, F
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@mylegguy2020] 🤔disobedient far from it if you have your own take . just think about your decision careful as your parents words of wisdom may come back to bite if you get it wrong
marchelajimenezCol · 18-21, F
what are the current consequences when you disobey them?
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Advice is a suggestion, right? Not an order. 🤔
SW-User
Yeah