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I can't understand my emotion and feelings

My closest grandmother passed away yesterday. I saw my mother, sister, and my father crying. Deep inside, I wanna cry out loud, but I can't. Today, few tears are coming out but I can't still express my sadness. Now, I am feeling sick and sluggish. I am thinking that maybe I'll be fine if I cry out loud?

Sorry for my English btw.
I think society puts too much pressure on people to do what it [b]thinks[/b] they should do. My best friend was the same way. It was just in her make up, that she couldn't cry and there's nothing wrong with that. We can grieve our own way and if we don't feel like grieving that doesn't mean we didn't love the person. There's no set rules on how we should act or feel after a friend or loved one dies. Nor how long we should grieve. That should strictly be up to the individual and relatives have no right to tell them how they should act or feel about a death. And we shouldn't force our feelings, just please other people.
I see death as a false belief. We simply pass through a veil from one dimension to another one, everything continues on to another higher plane of existence, another vibration. Your english is just fine. Cry when and if you need to things are as they should be. Be well, be happy.
SW-User
Im sorry to hear she passed. I was the same, as were my siblings. Its not the same way to grief for everyone. Just let yourself be fine, and if the fay comes that you need to sit down and cry, then sit down and cry.
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@SW-User I feel so heavy inside tho
SW-User
@sugarpie yeah. Its hard, i hope it gets easier for you.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
You will grieve your way, don’t look at how others handle this. Just go your way. When my dad died I didn’t cry until months later. But he was a jerk.
MAKER · 26-30
Sorry for your loose my dear l think you have to do as you feel right now . But have peace of mind. I want you to know that nothing last forever . Peace .
everyone grieves differently and at their own time,nothing is wrong with you. im sorry 💛
pdockal · 56-60, M
Everyone mourns in there own way and time
smiler2012 · 56-60
people handle grief and lose of family members in different way and because you show no emotion that is not wrong . it is good too have somebody strong there for the family at this sad time . you will grieve but you will do it in your own way and time [sugarpie]
Kevin6 · 61-69, M
I am sorry for your loss
Im sorry ❤️

I lost mine last September and I still havent fully grieved her. Some people cry. Some dont. It'll happen.
Elanor · F
Time changes feelings … grief isn’t easy, I’m sorry for your loss

Keep going 🌹
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Maybe you're still in shock?
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@basilfawlty89 this is what I'm considering :(

 
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