To older men, explain to me why you think young women should try older men.

Literally just because they want to fuck young women.

Honestly. Its not my thing but its a control thing. A 40 year old man can control an 18 year old woman more than one his own age. Financially, emotionally and unfortunately physically.

Its fucking vile. But thats the world we live in.

I think a lot of what many feed you is BS. But straight up, these are reasons why someone might find them attractive (not justifying dating one!)
1) many are financially secure
2) many have moveed from just wanting to bust a nut to actually enjoying pleasing a woman.
3) many biologically, takes a bit more to get arroused and finish. It becomes more of a mental, not just a physical thing.
4) many are not as cocky, highstrung, arrogant, easier going
5) many have a broader understanding of the world, life, their place in it
6) many are more stable in terms of living location, work situation, etc.
7) many are thinking less about themselves, more about others, better listeners
8) many have completed a fair amount of education.
9) many like the sense of adventure that a younger woman brings.

As for what is meant by “older” I’m thinking 40’s. Many guys in their 50’s are as capable, compatible, but tend to be more set in their ways.

These traits may not appeal to you if you’re more wild and spontaneous.

Good luck!

There is nothing creepy about a man of any age being attracted to a lovely young woman. In fact, attraction itself is unavoidable; if someone is attractive to someone, then they are. But beyond a certain age gap, the decent and dignified thing is to keep it to themselves. I use the Creep Formula: (Age/2)+7 = creep cutoff. So, since I'm 50, my creep cutoff for casual flirting is 32. Which isn't to say I wouldn't return a wink from a young lady.

Do you get approached by older women too? Just wondering, I always prefer roughly my own age. The difference is less significant as you get older, 10 years is a lot between 20-30, not so much between 40-50.

Dating might be fun I guess but pushing them in a wheelchair when you’re still young and able to go out and do things will get old if you make it to marriage. It’s more like having a daddy but your finances are taken care of.

I don't think you should - unless you're sitting around saying..."hmm...that guy looks...interesting"

if not...it's a waste of time

nobody can help who/what/when they are attracted to.

Lol we are creepy at the best of times, some of us just pull it off as normal and are not fat obese old blokes , but aged juveniles dying to make a comeback lol 😜

Now that I've thought about this more, I think part of the issue is the disconnect between how young women see older men and how they see themselves. For a lot of us in mid-life, we don't think of ourselves as old or that our sexuality is past the due date. So for some, we don't (or simply refuse to) recognize that younger women generally see us as outside the category of "sexually available and interesting".

If you read others’ posts on SW, apparently older men are more experienced and patient and caring and much better in bed than younger men. They know what women like and like giving it to them instead of just looking out for their own pleasure.

I don’t know that from experience or my own observations or anything, I’ve just seen lots of posts on SW about how much better older men are. How much older are we talking here?

we just love younger women and some younger women are into older guys
pete - 60

If it was t normal they wouldn’t do it. Centuries ago young girls married middle age men. Society has turned it into something perverted. Being creeped out by older people is judgmental, closed minded, and intolerant. I have no respect for those who look down on a young woman and older man. It’s not like you’re 13, you’re an adult. Time to stop being a child and grow up!

Like most things involving women, we are just trying to get away with anything you let us. We're hornballs until we drop dead too. If every young lady tuned me down, I probably wouldn't talk to young ladies. A lot of young ladies don't though. I don't quite get it either but I sure don't mind the age gap at all.

I think older guys can be more confident and less likely to play games with you. In addition they might have more life experiences to share and perhaps more financially better off for you both to enjoy the finer things in life. They also can be much better lovers than a younger less experience guy.

I don't. Everyone has preferences. There are advantages in some circumstances however, for a younger woman to be in a relationship with an older man. And that relationship is dependant on their maturity level.

Speaking as an older man, I'd say it's mostly creepy. But I'm sure some guys just feel their years of experience would simply overwhelm a young lady with sensual desires. But....creepy nevertheless.

I have never made that suggestion. Think about all the older men who have NOT said this to you, and hopefully you will feel better about us as a group.

Get some life experience with guys your age. You will know later if you are attracted to older men despite your previous unappetizing experiences.

well if you date old enough - and have a good prenup it could make a dandy part of your investment portfolio :)
(just kidding)

Age is irrelevant when it comes to adult male/female relationships, it is all about power levels.

there is no definite reason to try older men.if you like older men, you just try

I realise for some men it's like a trophy but when I see a middle-aged man (say over 45) with a woman who's maybe 15+ years younger I don't admire or envy him, I'm more likely to think he looks pathetic. , so I don't want to be in that position myself. And I don't understand why a young woman would want to be with an older guy but obviously some do, including some here on SW.

Solely my thoughts:

1. Older men have the life experience necessary to treat a woman. They realize the true value of people.

2. Older men not only admire physical beauty, but appreciate ALL facets of a woman; everything the makes a woman truly attractive and a partner in worthwhile relationship.

I don't really endorse females dating much older men but if I was to give a reason I would say because younger men are more like women these days. Not really masculine and so god damn sensitive.
though, I don't encourage the old creeps either

No games, straight forward. More experienced in life, less drama and knows how to stop it generally.

And all the creepy reasons as well

LOL. Are you 18? I’m only 23 and I already feel creepy flirting with 18-year-olds.

Most guys approach a younger girl for sexual reasons. It's a thumb rule. There are exceptions.

Because we like naps and we have bad puns

Hey how is it going? Do you respond to in box?

for many younger women it's a thrill doing it.

I wish the other way round

it's exciting if into taboo sex

You shouldn't

What do you think?

:)

Because they want you to