I think a lot of what many feed you is BS. But straight up, these are reasons why someone might find them attractive (not justifying dating one!)
1) many are financially secure
2) many have moveed from just wanting to bust a nut to actually enjoying pleasing a woman.
3) many biologically, takes a bit more to get arroused and finish. It becomes more of a mental, not just a physical thing.
4) many are not as cocky, highstrung, arrogant, easier going
5) many have a broader understanding of the world, life, their place in it
6) many are more stable in terms of living location, work situation, etc.
7) many are thinking less about themselves, more about others, better listeners
8) many have completed a fair amount of education.
9) many like the sense of adventure that a younger woman brings.
As for what is meant by “older” I’m thinking 40’s. Many guys in their 50’s are as capable, compatible, but tend to be more set in their ways.
These traits may not appeal to you if you’re more wild and spontaneous.
Good luck!
