To older men, explain to me why you think young women should try older men.

I have often been approached by older men either flirting or being overly friendly with me. It is quite clear what they are doing and thinking. It comes off as really creepy most of the time. I keep getting suggested by older men to date older men. Funny thing is most of the time their reasons are creepy. So I want to hear what yall have to say.

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I realise for some men it's like a trophy but when I see a middle-aged man (say over 45) with a woman who's maybe 15+ years younger I don't admire or envy him, I'm more likely to think he looks pathetic. , so I don't want to be in that position myself. And I don't understand why a young woman would want to be with an older guy but obviously some do, including some here on SW.

SW-User

@SW-User Was that Lilred? She posts a lot about older men.