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I just have a question after looking at posts here from both men AND women…

Is it really "prudish" to not be interested in talking about sex or making double entendres 24/7 ?
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
No, I think a lot of these folks are just desperate, to be honest. They talk about sex the way a starving man talks about a buffet.
@LordShadowfire Yeah, perhaps.
Lilymoon · F
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@LordShadowfire I can think of a period in my life during which I would consistently be making sexual free-associations and be obsessed with sexual jokes.

It was the time before I had actually HAD any sex.

Just saying.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I don't reply to those posts.

Maybe I'm a prude. Or old fashioned. But sex and intimacy is private business. Not to be broadcast to the whole world.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@rrraksamam On second thought, I think it's the easiest way to get attention. When people have nothing thoughtful or intelligent to say, discussing sexual stuff and posting nudes is the easiest way to get hearts and positive comments.
SW-User
@rrraksamam ☝️👍
"For everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven."

It might be more tolerable if every possible thing had not been said by millions for a very long time.

To dirty cliche or not to.

I'm with you. Not.
@sarabee1995 Scripture meets Rock n’ Roll. 😉
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard For sure! I was just looking it up. I was pretty sure it was from scripture but not 100%.
@bijouxbroussard @sarabee1995

I wonder who got cited as lyricist?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
No, definitely not. Those who claim it is are the ones with a problem.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
No. And it really grinds my gears when someone continually tries to steer interaction in that direction.

But also i dont fault people for being flirty and stuff just know the audience and person you are interacting with is mutually the same.

Some people have difficukty reading the damn room. 🤣
@bijouxbroussard that’s why I love this gif 😂

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard Exactly. So many times!
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@JaggedLittlePill Well said, JLP.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
It is not prudish at all.

I sometimes doubt the use of "adult" when referring to "adult content".

I like sexual humor as much as anyone, but seeing people try to drag every thread in that direction does get a bit tiresome.

Oh no! I said "drag!" 😂
Piper · 61-69, F
I don't think it's prudish at all, whether it's all the time...or just sometimes. Not when it comes to explicitly worded discussion of sex anyway, and some of the crude posts I've seen here related to it. Some of us think our intimacy with another is a private thing. Some people think not talking about is "prudish"....and some call it class.
SW-User
I prefer a clean conversation myself. It just mystifies me seeing the desperation in comments and posts. I thought this was SW, a place of support. Not an x rated drop off
SW-User
@SW-User
I thought this was SW, a place of support. Not an x rated drop off
Lol! Exacto.
SW-User
Not at all. I think 12/7 is fine
Changeisgonnacome · 61-69, F
No. Being loud about sex crosses our normal boundaries and is a result of e porn in society among other things, such as saloon culture.
SW-User
Prudish is a compliment in many cases. :)
Rutterman · 46-50, M
Not in my opinion. Constant sex talk bores my ass off. There's plenty of other stuff to talk about and these folks should give it a try once in a while.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@Rutterman Just fyi...
SW-User
NO. The key being 24/7.
That's bordering on a fanatical sickness. The human brain is much more than that, but it had devolved via social media.
SW-User
It makes me wonder wtf is wrong with them. Were they stunted at birth?? That they are middle age and this is the only thing their brain knows, constantly?! Boring af.
monte3 · 70-79, M
No your attitude is just sane, but SW doesn’t always attract sane people. Or even real people, a lot are just here to pose or exhibit their weirdness.
I go through moods if I’m being honest but I definitely talk about more than just sex. It’s a big deal in my life, but definitely not everything.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Not at all those people saying so don't respect your boundaries or feel they have to justify thier own behavior.
MellyMel22 · F
Nope and it’s not our fault people are obsessed with it that much!
SW-User
The sex posts get old and boring quite honestly
Fishy · 36-40, F
#VanillaAndProud ✊
Peapod · 61-69, F
You are not alone at all with this. I mute and block a lot of things here and have no apology for it. I am hardly a prude either, but I am not here for the bedroom talk.

A handful of thoughtful, thought provoking people like you make me want to keep coming back! 🤗
ilixolia · 46-50, F
Nope, there's a time and a place for everything.
Just because some choose to treat this place like it's a sex chat room, doesn't mean everyone else has to as well.

It's the equivalent of being called a narc because you choose to not do the drug offered to you.
Repete · 61-69, M
I don’t think so, but that seems to get people’s attention the quickest especially if it’s about someone else.
It would be nice to sometimes just chat about other things that you might have in common. Maybe.
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
No. Not at all.
JestAJester · 31-35, M
If anything people talk about sexuality way too much. There are some things better left private, or atleast reserved for fetlife
@JestAJester Agreed.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I agree with those that have said there is a time and place for everything. 24/7 of most topics gets boring or annoying.
If this was only the reason for the existence of this site, I would HATE it and leave. Peroid. 🤮

Not prudish. Exactly right :D 👍
sciguy18 · M
I’m guilty of the double entendre or innuendo on occasion, but I don’t make a habit of it...
smiler2012 · 56-60
if it is not your style and you are not comfortable with it fair enough 🤷‍♂️ [bijouxbroussard]
firefall · 61-69, M
Clearly, yes. There is only sex, nothing else exists.
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
Not at all, but I understand why you ask
Bri89 · 31-35, M
No, not prudish. But it's still funny, though.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Not at all, even I get bored of it.
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
shoot... then call me a prude. Whatever
Disguised · 56-60, M
In answer to your question... no...
Tracos · 51-55, M
Well.... It's a 24 hour platform...
I would not say it was prudish.

We all like different types of posts, we also all have different levels of openness. There is no right way or one way.

I do have a bawdy sense of humour....i blame that on the British comedy of the 1990s....but also my own sex life and preferences are very private and not something i share with anyone outside of my relationship.

I do hope my cheeky post didn't upset you.
craig7 · 70-79, M
No,not at all.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I don’t know many who are talking about sex 24/7....not even people like myself who can be quite sexual with posts at times.
@DragonFruit I’m seeing more than I was.
walabby · M
It's not prudish to be uninterested in talking about sex. It might be prudish to make a point of not talking about sex?
Nah but I prefer them over politics talk…
@Haniazed and religion… for the most part.
@JustGoneNow that too
@Haniazed I don’t. Politics isn’t private. It’s also possible to mute that category to some extent, but even with “non-adult” settings, people forget that there are kids here and don’t mark things "adult". The site doesn’t seem to monitor it anymore, either.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
People need a outlet to talk about things
@bhatjc There’s always Fetlife.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@bijouxbroussard Now lets not get to hasty✋
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
Sex is fun tho.
I'd like to post pics of my dog but I don't have one.
@Sharky86 The folks at Fetlife would agree. That’s the thing, there are sites where that’s the main topic.
Viper · M
Is it perv of someone whom does enjoy double entendres 24/7 ?
Dino11 · M
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
That's what she said.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
No, not at all. There’s a time and place.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
Its not prudish. If you aren't interested you aren't interested and that's fine.
You can safely ignore the posts you don't like.
@FeetAreFantastic I used to think just keeping my settings "non-adult" would keep thing relatively PG but that seems less affective nowadays because people don’t mark stuff “adult" and the filters don’t catch stuff like they did.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard I can understand that is annoying. People should definitely mark their posts appropriately. But I think this site also needs more and quicker moderators to mark posts that have not been correctly marked.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
A lady walked into a bar and asked for a double entendre.


So the bartender gave her one.
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@empanadas These are our choices ? 🤨
Repete · 61-69, M
I sure hope not. 😂 @bijouxbroussard

 
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