It's ok to decline blood pressure check right?

my neighbor lady had that like extra stress in having hers taken too

Yes. You don't have to do anything you don't want to.

Can you not get one of your maids to stand in for you Lady Silverspoon

mine is usually higher in the office, but I always bring my machine from home to show the Dr I get normal readings at home

Blood pressure’s an easy one, you should go, I get anxious and had a full health check last week including getting the prostate checked, not a pleasant experience.

You can decline just about ANY medical treatment.
I have "lab coat syndrome" too. When I had to go for my draft board physical (decades ago), I was borderline 140/90. They had me "sit down and relax". (Each day, they were focusing on one "target group"- the day I went it happened to be BP). Of course, that just made me MORE apprehensive and that shot up my BP even higher and they bounced me on medical rejection.
The question is, wouldn't you rather know what is going on so that you can take steps to fix things?
If you DO get a BP, sit upright, feet flat on the floor, do NOT cross your ankles. You might ask to have them pull the reading from both arms. In some (rare) cases, one arm will have circulatory issues and it might be hard to pull a reading from that arm.

I lose my eyes and picture myself on the beach while mine is being checked.

Have you tried 4x4 deep breathing to relax before a BP measurement at the office?

https://thejoywithin.org/breath-exercises/square-breathing

Get to the dr's parking lot about 10 minutes early, do the breathing there in your car, then continue the deep breathing in the waiting room and in the examining room right up until the measurement is taken.

Most places won't proceed without it

I'm just seeing this two days later. But my friend, this is something you really need to get over. Even with the white coat issue, the problem you have described before feeling the pressure on your arm, all of this is such benign stuff. You would have already had the appointment when you read this. Now I'm curious what happened.

Its your choice but I personally wouldn't because what are you actually anxious about? You're in a safe place. Probably one of the safest places you can actually be and the test is in your best interests to make sure you're healthy. It doesn't hurt so really, there's nothing to stress over. You just make it worse when you tell yourself you're going to be anxious. ❤

if u decline this they may not treat u. at all. i know my doc would not

Do you have a home bp cuff you can check? You might have white coat syndrome

I was turned away from oral surgery about a month ago because my bp was too high. I was told to monitor it and get it cleared with my doc in order for the dentist to go through with it. My doctor was confused as to why he'd turn me away from one snapshot. 😅 I'm good as long as someone isn't about to slice my mouth open!

it's fine to decline everything, doesn't mean cost and risk disappears

yes, you are calm down i b ok🫂

It should be but probably not. I have an issue with nurses who use those free-standing blood pressure machines and slapping the cuff on my upper arm. They’ll wrap it too tight and then it hurts like hell and my blood pressure will go up to 180 or more. Then they’ll ask me if I have had other high blood pressure readings. It’s the way they are doing it. Using too small of a cuff then wrapping it too tight. Other nurses will do it right and it won’t hurt. I’ve had bruises on my arm a few times as a result. The last time at the chemo center I told the nurse she should use a larger cuff. It pissed her off apparently and she told her supervisor. The supervisor came to me and started gaslighting me telling me that “everyone who comes here is stressed out and has to go through traffic etc. and has a high blood pressure reading”. I told the other nurse the next time I went to the oncologist visit what happened. She took my blood pressure the right way and it was 121/60. And it didn’t hurt, just some pressure. They need to do with those free-standing machines and use a manual blood pressure monitor. I get good readings from those.

Let them know about your anxiety.
Ask them if they can find a way to ease you into it.

Proper vital scores are imperative for accurate diagnosis and assessment.

Maybe bring your ear buds with your favorite music or an e book.

I’m just spitballing but you already know that I think you’re capable of overcoming some of the smaller things of fear that cause you anxiousness.

Whatever you decide, it’s the right call for you and nobody should coerce you to do anything that makes you too uncomfortable.