Eloquence has always seemed like art to me.

It used to be. Well done, it was a sincere validation of the flirtee with no harm intended..😷

Being authentic is sexier than being flirtateous.

Yes
But only very few are good at it

There's a reason for the term 'pickup artist'

Absolutely, if you want to be good at it

yes i guess i do flirt like it is art 😋

Yes it is.

Definitely. Just like seduction

It is for some people. But not for me i cant even figure out how to flirt.

I despise irl flirting. I'm not receptive unless I'm explicitly told I'm courted and also uninterested until being clear. Don't enjoy it. Never enjoyed it. I don't mind accidental glances and the natural reactions, but intentional "Hey babes, what time it is" type of cringe worthy behavior makes my skin crawl

Yes. It is art, It would be like a sculpture and i would call it

"Boom Chicka Wow Wow afternoon Delight at Lunch"

If finger painting can be art why can't flirting?

Anything involving emotions is an art. A method of expression on the emotional level.

So yes flirting is an art form.

Artists across multiple areas will often ask: "How does that make you feel?"

Same applies to flirting. How does it make you feel? Embarrassed, funny, excited perhaps? Those are all feelings.

Yes, and one I'm not great at 😅

I think it's overrated.
I like sincere people who don't play games.

vice

If so, I´m not the Lawrence Olivier of the Art!

It's more difficult to learn than squirting.

It can be, but in some cases it gets overdone and becomes...idk almost gross. I usually end up thinking "how many others have you tried this on or said this to?" If they're laying it on too thick and it's not just flowing instead of some practiced junk.

Not if you have to work at it.

Idk man I just bend over

It's a learned skill that I've never learned to do or read from others

I think too many think of it as too much of an art instead of acting authentically as themselves. It’s not gonna fly with me!

Must be. I can’t even finger paint. 😏

Flirting is attention without intention.

The moment a motive is introduced it becomes something else entirely.

Not so much, just like nudity isn't art. It makes it seem as something forced or scripted versus naturally instinctual. I think we label things to make them more or less than they are.

It's all just natural and there is defo beauty in that.

I think it's a useless art.

No!

No, it's just never clearly explained and 50% of all people think they're in the top .1%.

Is controlling your hormones an art?

The goal is to not be a mindless, intrusive offensive, penis. I wouldn’t call that an art.

The art is just giving nature’s intent the occasional subtle assist.

No

A lost one, apparently.