My wife cheated on me when we were dating in college. I suspected it, but did not know for sure until after we married and she told me all about it. We did not end it, and it is good that we stuck together. She never cheated again.

It's up to the person to decide. Personally I haven't seen or talked to my ex since finding out he cheated. I didn't sign up to date a cheater so I have no interest in staying with one.

Made the mistake to try .. while there was not more cheating I know of, nothing changed with the approaches that were not working in the relationship.

I'll not repeat the mistake if the situation ever arises again

My very first boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was gone for the summer. I was 16. It's the most horrible feeling in the world, to KNOW that two people who are supposed to care about you are lying to you and going behind your back.

TRUST in any relationship is so important that REAL love can't exist without it. Cheaters are greedy people who want their cake and eat it, too. They are liars. That usually doesn't change.

You are VERY young, and I assume the person you are dating is also very young. If you are dating a man, then he is still in that phase of male life where he wants to pollinate ALL the flowers and doesn't want to settle on one.

If you want to stay with him, fine...just realize you will be hurt by him as he continues to do what he will always do.

Loosing trust is a very hard thing to get back. Losing love forever might be harder. Depends on many things between the two I would think.

Cheating hurts because it breaks trust, not just rules. My healing and peace come first so I would choose to walk away.

If both are willing and want to work things out, then that would be the first step…
If either aren’t willing then time to end it…
My opinion only

That all depends on where you both are in your hearts. If you're able to forgive and trust again and if he is honestly done with that behavior, then yes, work on it.

Ask them why they cheated. Was it because…

They don’t respect you?
They don’t care about your feelings?
They don’t think you’re pretty enough?
They don’t think you’re good enough in bed?
They don’t like being in a relationship with you?

You have to decide for yourself if you can live with their answer.

Personally, I’ve never heard an answer that would make me give a cheater another chance.

I don't think cheating is very important. But lying is. Who you have sex with is no one's business but yours. But lying about it means you'll lie about other things and that's not acceptable.

It's only cheating if you've both agreed to be exclusive with one another. If you haven't reached that point, it isn't "cheating". More like continued searching.

I like to end it

Well that depends on you and how strongly you feel about that person and if you think they're able to change or not

I suppose you can work it out but you have to actually let it go, which is the hard part

That would be odd, and might be due to one person assuming exclusivity when it was not assumed by the other...

It would depend on a lot, but the lack of trust would make it very difficult.

Depends do you want to be cheated on again

if your dating .its not cheating .it is selecting the best of the two,

Whatever you feel like. There is no cut and dry rule about relationships.

Nope! Player! End it …once a player always a player!

End it.

Well if you are ok with a cheating partner then knock yourself out. If you expect your partner to change and become monogamous then you will be disappointed.

You should be dumping men left and right for any infraction. Or anyone, really. Lol The quality of your relationships are dependent on your standards.

Each to their own but the probability for it to happen again is likely very high

At your age? end it