Why is dating a younger man/boy a taboo out there?

my first sex was with an older woman she taught me a lot about how please a woman and how a woman can please a man ,That knowledge has worked for me very well over the years with older and younger girls and women.

Young guys are horny and can learn a lot from an older lady, but he will always be only a toy to play with for a while. If you are lucky enough to find a toy to play with, who cares what others think, have fun. He certainly will.

When I was 19 I dated a 41 year old woman for about 4 months. She was up front about the fact that she wanted to be with young men. She taught me to slow down and how to properly tease a woman. Basically she taught me how to make love as opposed to just f*****g. My love life changed after that experience for the better.

Nothing wrong with it.

I love younger boys because they are curious.

Curiosity doesn't kill the cat ...satisfying it makes one wiser :)

I have a strong sense of traditional values and morals. I'm concerned about the trend of older women dating or marrying much younger men, say 50+ women dating guys in their 20's and even marrying. I understand that everyone has the right to make their own choices, but I can't help but feel concerned when I see significant age gaps in relationships. I value mutual respect, equality, and compatibility. I worry that these factors might be overlooked in relationships with large age differences. I certainly don't believe it's proper for an old lady to be wanting to break in a young man in his twenties, let alone engage in that type of activity. Then we wonder why this country is failing and will be judged. This is disgusting to think that this type behavior is acceptable in this day and age, or that an old woman would sink that low. There's no self-esteem, self-worth, or respect for herself, in that.

One of my current bfs is 10 years younger than me. If there is stigma I'm oblivious to it.

Not sure it is that taboo anymore. If they are of age, i know i dont care who anyone dates.

an older woman taught me a lot - she was 18 years older than me.

If you're both adults, go for it.

It's not a taboo at all.But what matters is how younger.Unless the person isn't under 18 then everything's fine.

I learned a lot from one of my friend’s mother.

It’s ok for older men, younger women, so it shouldn’t be a big deal.

If two people are happy, and of legal age, I wish them all the best.

If it is it shouldn't be, date who you want, have fun

In favour 💓😍👍👍🫶

Have gun, will travel? Enjoy yourself; i was blessed enough to have a few older ladies enjoy my attention, i can't say decidedly that they necessarily taught me anything, but i did learn....🤗🤗🤗🤗

my gf is 29 years older than me and i've always been with women at least 20 years older than i am

I used to want a young girl for myself in my late 20s because I didn’t want a 304 to one day take as my wife. I was a late bloomer and a virgin. I wanted someone untouched like myself, so I thought a lady under 25 was my best chance. I was in a relationship, and then lost our virginity in her early 20s. My views have changed over the last few years.

I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s. Out of college, they might have some worldly experience. 25 and over, is fair game. I find those stories of high school teachers in their 30s taking advantage of some horny high school boys morally wrong. The kids might be having fun times and busting their nuts, but again, they don’t know better.

date who you want, I am not judgmental
plus, I don't care

I don't know what "out there" is, but it's 2024 and it's no big deal.

Is it that common? I’m not sure

It certainly doesn't bother me in the least.

But here is one possible explanation for the "taboo" reaction you refer to. We are inundated with advertising that promotes the notion that women must look young in order to be attractive. And that contributes to a certain cultural mindset.

Older women dating younger men is a growing trend in China, where it's known as "Jiedilian", which translates to "Big Sister Love". In China, some men find older women attractive because they often help with chores, cooking, and caring for relatives

I love them but I can't date them really. I don't find it a taboo unless the gap is too big and it's still nothing to blame

I'm in favour almost always. Not going to list my conditions as to why there, but they would be equal for either gender. I'm with a woman now six years my elder and I love her.

While the age gap between my wife is me is 12 years, (she's 58 & I'm 46), I agree with you. We've been happily married for 10 years.

@longhairedcougar🤫 it is wrong and taboo if you listen to people and take any notice long as you are both happy and it works what does it matter 🤷‍♂️

It’s not. Big age gaps are uncommon relatively for both genders but especially if the woman is old enough to be the guys mother.

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Buy me coffee and then i'll tell you.

I honestly don't care about who dates who.

So should everyone except if you care about the person and the other person they are dating is crazy.

There’s no against or in favor.

It’s an individual choice and nobody else really cares.

I didn't know dating a younger man was a taboo. I think age is just a number.

I see nothing wrong with it.. I had an older woman for my first sexual encounter 👅

i don'r think its taboo at all go for it, i am all for it

I don't think it is now days. Movie stars do it. It's pretty common.

It will be definitely exciting!

I certainly don’t see a problem

As long as its legal should be ok

Its not taboo anymore..

Because accusing people of being a pedophile is a fad these days

I don't see an issue

Each to their own

Because you'll become a "Gamer," in no time, next thing you know you're living in his Mother's basement, barking food orders up the unfinished stairs.

No !