Why is dating a younger man/boy a taboo out there?
And that too when it is experienced and loved by most.. whats your take on it?
Against or in favor?
Against or in favor?
51-55, F
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SW-User
I used to want a young girl for myself in my late 20s because I didn’t want a 304 to one day take as my wife. I was a late bloomer and a virgin. I wanted someone untouched like myself, so I thought a lady under 25 was my best chance. I was in a relationship, and then lost our virginity in her early 20s. My views have changed over the last few years.
I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s. Out of college, they might have some worldly experience. 25 and over, is fair game. I find those stories of high school teachers in their 30s taking advantage of some horny high school boys morally wrong. The kids might be having fun times and busting their nuts, but again, they don’t know better.
I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s. Out of college, they might have some worldly experience. 25 and over, is fair game. I find those stories of high school teachers in their 30s taking advantage of some horny high school boys morally wrong. The kids might be having fun times and busting their nuts, but again, they don’t know better.
SandWitch · 26-30, F
@SW-User
You sound like a very right-wing conservative American who has lofty ideas of what constitutes normal behavior between two consenting adults. You are at liberty to choose whom you think is the right person in your own life, but for you to say "I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s".
Let's face it, who "they" are whom you're referring to in your quote above, are other Americans who think just like you do and who drink from the same watering trough as you do and therefore became like-minded members of a team who think they know what's best for everyone.
It's not for you or anyone else to decide if someone starting college is WAAAY too young for a person in his/her 50's, as you would say. You need to keep your nose out of everyone else's relationships except those relationships you choose for yourself.
You sound like a very right-wing conservative American who has lofty ideas of what constitutes normal behavior between two consenting adults. You are at liberty to choose whom you think is the right person in your own life, but for you to say "I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s".
Let's face it, who "they" are whom you're referring to in your quote above, are other Americans who think just like you do and who drink from the same watering trough as you do and therefore became like-minded members of a team who think they know what's best for everyone.
It's not for you or anyone else to decide if someone starting college is WAAAY too young for a person in his/her 50's, as you would say. You need to keep your nose out of everyone else's relationships except those relationships you choose for yourself.
SW-User
@SandWitch okie dokie, Sandwitch. Hopefully your will have children and your teenage daughter runs off with a 50 y/o man. I don’t care about right wing or left wing, whatever. If you approve of a naive person being used by someone more than twice their age, idk what to tell you. Use common sense, please. Writing me an essay doesn’t make you more right than me. I forgot you may be lacking common sense, since you’re telling me to keep my nose out of a post that clearly asks for my opinion. 😂
SandWitch · 26-30, F
@SW-User
You are assuming that you are smarter and more worldly than a person half your age, though you would never know for sure because you've never dated anyone half your age and therefore have no concept of what that experience would actually be like for either party.
For you to say
Like I said, you can only decide what's right for you and you alone, but under no circumstances can you stand up like the ego-driven American that you are and dictate what's best for all concerned because after all, you're older and supposedly wiser and therefore know it all.
Only some dumb-shitt who goes through life with his head stuffed up his ass would make the idiotic post that you did.
You are assuming that you are smarter and more worldly than a person half your age, though you would never know for sure because you've never dated anyone half your age and therefore have no concept of what that experience would actually be like for either party.
For you to say
especially for a person in his/her 50s.
your ego is attempting to decide what's best for that 50 year old person, when in fact you have no clue what's best for anyone, not even for yourself most likely.Like I said, you can only decide what's right for you and you alone, but under no circumstances can you stand up like the ego-driven American that you are and dictate what's best for all concerned because after all, you're older and supposedly wiser and therefore know it all.
Only some dumb-shitt who goes through life with his head stuffed up his ass would make the idiotic post that you did.
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